Am I being irrational?
Q. This likely sounds irrational but it's been playing on my mind lately.. My boyfriend is a talented artist, just as a hobby, and most of the subjects he paints are fantasy figures of naked or provocative women with say mythical creatures. This has ...
A. 1 February 2011: To be honest you do sound a little irrational. I think you're just feeling less attractive because of your changing body, it will pass eventually. The important thing to remember is that your boyfriend finds you way more attractive that you think ... (read in full...)
Why do I lose confidence in my ability to do public speaking?
Q. I don't know why am I like this, I think I don't have enough confidence to speak in front of many people, I feel so frustrated because I know how to speak english, but when there are times when speaking in english is required, i always find myself ...
A. 1 February 2011: You might want to try chat rooms with an audio interface. That way you are in control of the situation and you can do it more and more until you feel ready to do in in a real world situation.... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my ex boyfriend without looking like a creepy stalker?
Q. About 3 months ago I moved into a new apartment. Turns out a guy I slept with a year ago lives in this same apartment building, and I had no idea until I saw him. He didn't see me, and that I know of, he still hasn't. I'm too embarrassed to admit ...
A. 1 February 2011: Assuming you broke up on good terms go to his door and give him a knock. tell him you just moved in and were surprised to find a friendly face. Or arrange to accidentally bump into him and then act surprised. Maybe mention that you'd seen him in ... (read in full...)
Just split up with my girlfriend, now do I respond to this text?
Q. Right guys/gals. I got a question for you. I just split up with my girlfriend. We absolutely adored one another. Really in love. Practically joined at the hip. Anyway, my last ex was a bit crazy when I was with her and still is. She foun...
A. 1 February 2011: What this boils down to is trust. She does not trust you, she also sounds manipulative. She's the kind of woman who will happily take a strangers word over someone she is meant to be in love with and then toy with your head by wanting to break up ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to this much older woman! What should I do?
Q. OK.... So I have this aunt who isnt really my aunt... she was my moms best friend since i could remember. How ever my mom and her are not friends any more but her and I have gotten closer and closer. We have grown into our own relationship and we ...
A. 17 September 2010: If you're mothers reaction to this wouldn't be an issue then it might be time to own up to your feelings about this woman,. But before you do so it's really important to be sure that she doesn't see you as just her unofficial nephew. Those looks she ... (read in full...)
Is he just taunting, or does he like me?
Q. i have a class mate at my college. we have been studying together for nearly 2 years now. he's still a stranger to me. during pass 2 months he started acting weird.well, at least weird enough to me. suddenly he said "can i be your fan club?" i was ...
A. 17 September 2010: If you're sure this guy actually likes girls (to me he sounds like a gay man who is just very playful and fond of you) but you your self don't feel anything romantic for him then I'd keep it friendly at the moment. He might come out and tell you ... (read in full...)
I pay for everything except his credit card bills and his hobbies. I'm starting to feel used.
Q. I live with my boyfriend and I pay all the bills (rent utilities groceries) I have an average paying job but work extra hours for overtime, he's self employed and pays his credit card bill, and for his hobbies...hunting fishing backpacking. I moved ...
A. 17 September 2010: Any couple is a partner ship and there are certain expenses that should remain separate and certain expenses that should be paid together. Food and most common bills should always be paid together. I know it can be difficult to talk to people about ... (read in full...)
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