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I lied to some other kids about the guy I like... and it got back to him!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have done the worst thing possible.I've never felt so low.I lied and told some sixth-graders that my crush and I were going out and jokingly advertised my mood ring as our wedding ring. Well,one of my best friends told my crush ev...

A.   14 May 2005: Oh dear. I think we have all told a little white lie sometimes to either take the pressure off or seem popular. I think your crush over-reacted a little but I can see that he was probably embarrassed. Confide in your mates and tell them it was ... (read in full...)

My ex and I ran into each other after 2 years, and it's reignited an old flame.

Q.   Split with my ex-girlfriend 2 years ago, bumped into her in a club last week. When we were together I was with someone else, I admitted this, we gave it another go but it did not work out, mainly down to trust issues. She never really forgave me for ...

A.   14 May 2005: Ooo, tough one. Be careful, she may be trying to reel you in before she gives you a nasty nip! Revenge? If you give in, you will repeating history! Remember the good memories and move on.... (read in full...)

Since he knows I have nowhere to go, my b/f uses that when he theatens me.

Q.   I feel so alone and I don't know what to do. I live with my boyfriend and he owns the house. We just had an argument of sorts and he blames it all on me; it wasn't over anything serious. He gets angry pretty quick and can be quite threaten...

A.   14 May 2005: I feel very concerned for you; both for your physical and mental health. This man is demoralising you and his mood swings are making your life impossible. Can you see yourself living this way until you die? Please be honest with yourself - love is ... (read in full...)

My current partner and I aren't getting on very well... then along comes and ex who wants me back!

Q.   I need some advice. I am a 41 yr old mother of 2 boys. I have been in a relationship for 6 years. We are not married. We have been fighting a lot and he doesn't get along too well with my youngest child. I am debating on staying with him or not. H...

A.   14 May 2005: To be blunt I would cut your losses. Whatever you felt for these guys in the past is damaged and gone. The 51 year old may have suddenly found himself high and dry and I don't mean to upset you, but you sound like the comfort zone. You deserve so ... (read in full...)

Is my husband being "recruited" into the gay community?

Q.   My husband thinks he may be gay. The problem with this is that he has never had any thoughts about this before and has never fancied or even thought of being with a man before. The thought of this kind of sex disgusts him. I have found out the ...

A.   14 May 2005: I do belive that people cannot be recruited into another sexuality. I know people who were married in heterosexual relationships then left for a gay lover, but that is not the same. I think that if you are gay you are gay. I suspect that when your ... (read in full...)

My guy is 18 years older but he's the one giving the confusing signals!

Q.   I've been dating a man 18 years my senior (I'm 23, he's 41)for three years now. During those three years we've called it quits twice, and have twice managed to see through our troubles. Prior to our last break-up, we had plans to move in together, ...

A.   14 May 2005: I know this sounds harsh, but I really would not move in until he has made his intentions clear and final. He may have said he wanted to start a family to keep you or you have to face facts that he wants a family, but not with you. The only answer ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend hugs other girls, but not me...

Q.   Why wont my bf hug me when he sees me, but he hugs other girls? ...

A.   14 May 2005: Poor you, this must feel very odd and a bit hurtful. Have you asked him why he does this? Perhaps you could try the same when you meet other guys - it might be a wake up call for him. Does he not hug you even when you're alone? Perhaps he is trying ... (read in full...)

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