How can I make my girlfriend secure? She's heard my ex is now free and is acting strange
Q. My life is like a soap opera and I don't know what to do about. A girlfriend breaks up with me. I try to reconcile, but she's with someone else so I move on. I am still in a little pain or rebounding, but I began a new relationship with another ...
A. 24 February 2016: Perhaps your current girlfriend knows she is the rebound and feels second best, particularly more so now that your ex is single again. I think I would feel the same way too. How long after your breakup did you start seeing the new lady? If you ... (read in full...)
My gf is texting another guy
Q. Hi guys, I've been with my current girlfriend for over a year. At first, we started off as casual. During this time, she hooked up with two different guys and then met her ex girlfriend for Valentine's day (she swore nothing happened). I acc...
A. 11 February 2016: if I were you, I would talk to your girlfriend about it. I'll also let her know that while I appreciate her honesty that she is texting some other guy regularly, it makes me uncomfortable that she is spending so much time talking to this guy. ... (read in full...)
My younger husband likes to tell me that no one else will have me because I'm older
Q. I am older than my husband. Every time me and my controlling abusive husband have an argument he will say no one else will have me as I am old ( early forties, which no one believes my age) and will use a load of vulgar language towards me. I have ...
A. 10 February 2016: Yes I think this is the right thing to say. Him saying all these only tells you he is insecure about himself and has to put you down so he can feel good. I don't think it is a mature way of handling an argument either. He has nothing else to say but ... (read in full...)
Post threesome drama...what to do when you want to stay friends??
Q. So I've been dating my boyfriend for over year now and we haven't had any issues in the past. But, recently I had cheated on him, for what seems to be no reason at all, in a threesome. The other girl in the threesome is my best friend and her then ...
A. 9 February 2016: I don't think it's possible to stay friends with her if you still want to be with your Boyfriend. That was the condition he imposed to make things work. I agree with Ivyblue that it's pretty black and white. If the roles were reversed, I don't think ... (read in full...)
What should I consider when dating a younger man?
Q. I have come across and found I am very attracted to and have a 'crush' on a younger guy. I feel as if I'm back in high school again! I started noticing him because he would sort of stare at me when we were around each other. He is 20. I feel he is ...
A. 7 February 2016: Hello! I think it really boils down to what you want in life and whether he has similar goals. Are you dating for fun or do you intend it to be serious? If you would like to date for fun and take it from there, then I would say go for it. If it ... (read in full...)
My Bf and I, both 14, kiss a lot. Should I be worried about the recent way he's behaving when we kiss?
Q. my boyfriend and me have been in what i would say is a serious relationship for about 6 months. We are the same age and have got to the point where we kiss a lot, for a long time. recently, whilst kissing he's been pulling me a lot closer than usua...
A. 23 January 2016: Hi! I think it's normal :) He could be kissing you for a longer time because he feels closer to you, and/or perhaps he wants to go to second base and/or maybe even third base. It is a normal part of teenagers growing up to want to explore each ... (read in full...)
The distance is making me paranoid
Q. So I have been dating this guy for a short time - October 2015. He is wonderful, and we are completely taken with each other, the only trouble is, I live in the UK and he in the US and the distance is really hard. Not only is the distance ...
A. 18 December 2015: Hello, please hang in there! Like you, I'm in an LDR (I'm in Asia and he is in Europe and we have a 7 hour time difference between us) as well and I empathise with you. Going a week without hearing from him is a little Long I feel. My partner and I ... (read in full...)
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