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I want to initiate an affair with a married friend of my wife and mine

Q.   I am a married man,38. I have strong feelings for an older woman who is also married and is a friend of us. I can tell from her looks that she has the same feeling. Nothing has happened up to this moment, not a word expressed, nothing at all. Ca...

A.   2 January 2011: Welp, people want all kinds of things. That doesnt necessarily mean they should go for everything they WANT, but instead, perhaps they should focus on what they HAVE and how they would FEEL if they lost it all?? And, you may be complete... (read in full...)

I'm suspicious! He says he loves me then he says he can't stand being with me and wants to move out. Is this a cover to see this other woman?

Q.   ok - my partner says he is fed up of my jealousy and suspicious mind and needs time to think about what he wants now.He says he is fed up of me checking up on him all the time (which I don't- but I do try to ring him occasionally when he is out - ...

A.   2 January 2011: Hey, here's my question: WHY would you want a guy who has already cheated and is more than likely doing it again. I smell a rat, and no wonder you're checking up on him!! I would be, but first time I ever found proof I'd be gone. There's n... (read in full...)

What should I do? I could give up on it but I really like him.

Q.   So I joined an online dating site. I guy messaged me and we have been chatting since then. Probably on average of 4 times a week if not more. I didn't see his picture before we started chatting on Skype. We decided to meet after about 2 weeks. The ...

A.   15 December 2010: I wouldnt ask him again, but let him pursue you for another date. That way, you wont have to sit there and wonder if he really likes you as much. If you dont hear nothing, then take that as your answer because guys will chase what they want, it... (read in full...)

Why all the fighting over Facebook??

Q.   Here's my situation... I met a man online, through a dating site and we hit it off from the first date. Mutual attraction and chemistry, and it just felt so good at the beginning. We decided to get off of the dating site, but he wanted to be fri...

A.   15 December 2010: You guys are right, all of you in many ways. We're both goofy for acting like this, I'm crazy for ever letting him tell me what to do when he's doing EXACTLY what he's accusing me of, and Facebook is just a badddd place to meet anyone (although we ... (read in full...)

Married lover doesn't love me but is extremely fond of me?

Q.   Hi Ive been seeing a married man for about 9yrs, well i tried to break it off so i told him i would tell his wife about us if he didn't plus i said a lot of other very hurtful stuff to him, told him he had no respect for her ,or his marriage vows, ...

A.   11 December 2010: He's in it for the sex, sister. If I were you, I'd either keep him for sex and forget all the love stuff, or get some self esteem and dump him. I'm not in your shoes, but if you really wanna know how he feels about women in general--look how he's... (read in full...)

Married lover doesn't love me but is extremely fond of me?

Q.   Hi Ive been seeing a married man for about 9yrs, well i tried to break it off so i told him i would tell his wife about us if he didn't plus i said a lot of other very hurtful stuff to him, told him he had no respect for her ,or his marriage vows, ...

A.   11 December 2010: He's in it for the sex, sister. If I were you, I'd either keep him for sex and forget all the love stuff, or get some self esteem and dump him. I'm not in your shoes, but if you really wanna know how he feels about women in general--look how he's... (read in full...)

Scent of a woman?

Q.   There's a young woman at work, who I always know when she is near because... I can smell her. She smells amazing and the weird thing is, I don't think it's her moisturizer or perfume. I want to approach her and introduce myself, but I think I'll...

A.   11 December 2010: My ex used to say he was attracted to my scent--my natural scent--and said he thought it was because of pheremones(check spelling, lol) but yeah, some people do smell really good, and different people smell differently wearing the same cologne or ... (read in full...)

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