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My boyfriend raped me and I don't know what to do about it, I feel so dirty.

Q.   Help me please i thought he loved me im 14 and my 15 year old boyfriend Raped me :'( i havnt told anyone what shud i do i thought he loved me, He was walkin me home and he suggested we go the long way round so we have longer to talk and then he ...

A.   24 February 2007: He is not your boyfriend if he hit or raped you. Turn him in ASAP. There might be a chance that he will get off, but if you don't report it, there is a 100% chance he will get away with it and will likely do it to another girl too.... (read in full...)

I can only orgasm with clitoral stimulation but what guy is going to sit there for ages doing that until I cum? I'm still a virgin!

Q.   hi im a 16 yo virgin. im worried when i get round to having sex it will do nothing 4 me as when i pleasure myself in the place the penis would go it really doesnt feel all that good?! the only thing that gets me 2 orgasm is a lot of play on the ...

A.   24 February 2007: For me, oral sex and bringing my partner to climax is just as enjoyable as the actual penetration. If I get you off, I am pretty sure I will get mine too. And you will keep coming back. Right?... (read in full...)

I view what he did as deceit and the trust is broken. How can we get back on track?

Q.   Advice please from anyone who can help, I have just discovered that my hubby of nearly 30 years has been viewing porn behind my back, now that's probably not so bad most men want to look at porn, but in our case it has caused him to stop making love ...

A.   23 February 2007: You may have the whole thing backwards. Is it the porn that drove him from the bedroom, or is it the bedroom that drove him to porn. You need to figure that out, and then maybe he will come to bed regularly. Maybe you want to talk half the night ... (read in full...)

I need tips on how to quit smoking! Is 'cold turkey' the best way forward?

Q.   Hello All; I've been a smoker for 15yrs and i need to quit asap. I love it but now i have this ugly raspy cough that erupts in the most inconvenient moments, let alone my discolored nails and palid skin. Should i cut down gradually or jus...

A.   23 February 2007: I quit smoking a couple times. I went through a course the Air force offered to quit both times. I don't think I even used the patch they prescribed the first time. Just quit for about 4 months. Proved that I could and went back. A year or so ... (read in full...)

Would it matter to a guy if my vagina area was strange?

Q.   basically, there's a guy, and its possible stuff might happen but im sorta worried. like, ive never been past first base before and im worried about my vagina area not being right? like my clits always seem really odd to me, big and sorta shrive...

A.   22 February 2007: If it really bothers you, have sex in a dark room. It is normal to be critical of yourself no matter how normal until you get comfortable with your body in the company of the other sex. Men wonder how they will measure up also. Quite frankly, I ... (read in full...)

Why am I so angry at men? All they care about is sex sex sex!

Q.   hi Why am i SO against men and how they are with women? i hate the fact that all teenage boys and men only care about sex? i just feel that women are used and it truly offends me! i have never had sexual intercourse with anyone before, im only 1...

A.   22 February 2007: It is a fact of life. Men like sex and women like stuff. If a guy buys a woman flowers, he probably wants a reward (sex). If a woman gives a man a night of sex, she wants a reward (flowers). Who is being used?... (read in full...)

What is the average age for breasts to develop? I'm 18 and I'm barely out of a training bra!

Q.   iv recently turned 18 years old. i was premature of 3/4months as a child. iv always been really small and still look rather young compared to everyone else and so my breasts arnt as developed as id like them to be either... everyone (family) is ...

A.   22 February 2007: There is nothing wrong with being small chested. They will increase if you have a kid, but small can be sexy too!... (read in full...)

We broke up 5 months ago, am I stupid to wait on him?

Q.   My boyfriend broke up with me at the end of this summer after 10 months, I didn't want to break up, but he said that he couldn't be in serious relationship at this point in his life (we are both 20), he still loves me and still wants me in his life ...

A.   22 February 2007: Girl, you are only 20. Way too young for something serious. He is taking advantage of the fact that he can get sex whenever he wants without working for it. Not that casual sex is bad. You just need to shop around also. If the sex is good with ... (read in full...)

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