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6 months after parting my feelings are just as strong as they were!

Q.   Hi there everyone, I will try and keep this short, and if it does not give you enough information please let me know. Here goes, i started a relationship with an old school friend, we were both unattached apart from the fact she had just come ou...

A.   18 January 2012: Thanks for the advice i do appreciate it, i will keep you posted on the outcome Kind regards x... (read in full...)

I just found out my partner was a prostitute

Q.   Just found out that my partner was a prostitute - apparently a one off that she dreadfully regrets...I love her but am at a loss what to do now...sorry so short but I'm too upset for many details. ...

A.   7 January 2012: Hi there, You have had some excellent advice and opinions,if you truly love her, you should be proud of her for being totally honest with you, the past is history,look forward to the future and build it together.... (read in full...)

Sex is like...?

Q.   I really want to have sex but don't have a boyfriend. Could someone please tell me what it feels like to have sex. Like comparisons. ...

A.   7 January 2012: Hi there, It is a good question,from a male point of view it does depend on who you are with, if there is a chemistry between you it is all in the build up, getting each other to a point where the feelgood feeling kicks in, the intimacy is hard to d... (read in full...)

People tell me I am a great catch but I can't seem to get into a relationship! I hate being single!

Q.   I hate being single. There I said it. I would like to feel loved, and be part of a relationship, to share things with a special someone. At nearly 29 years old, I have been single for most of my adult life and it is really beginning to aff...

A.   5 January 2012: Hi there, You may be trying too hard for a relationship to develope, it is hard not to knock yourself when you have approached men in different ways, sometimes men see all the qualities that you have,as you may be unapproachable. Fro... (read in full...)

The Magic called Love!

Q.   Love...what a small word for something so immense. In love, our hearts defy our minds. Perhaps that is our flaw: trying to control something that is so tumultous. It is impossible to control who we fall in love with. Our hearts, for whatever reason, ...

A.   5 January 2012: Hi there, Reading your thoughts on the magic of love, quite stunning that you have such wise words coming from someone so young. I am in my late 50's and have recently experienced the emotional rollacoaster that love can take you, even thoug... (read in full...)

My lack of experience affects my dating life, badly! Help!

Q.   ok. so here is another friday night poster. i dont know where to start and i apologise for the length of the post. im approaching 30 and still a virgin. never date, dont approach girls when im out etc. i do go out plenty but always seem to g...

A.   20 October 2010: Hi there, just a few words if they do help, go for the people that suggest joining clubs or social groups that are not just bars and clubs, and any girl that asked you out seems interested say "YES" it starts the wheel turning like a l... (read in full...)

Was my timing right asking her out?

Q.   Am i "lovesick" Hi, back again to give you a follow up, interesting to find that i am still thinking of the old school friend i bumped into, she has certainly had an affect on me, why is it some people you give no farther thought to, she has been...

A.   17 October 2010: Thanks Caring Guy, Your reply is appreciated and keep up the good work... (read in full...)

I just wish I really knew what he felt...

Q.   For the past year, I've had this relationship with this guy. We started out as friends, and we flirted a lot when we texted and talked online. So he comes to visit one night, we kissed. Every time he came to see me after that, we would go a little ...

A.   16 October 2010: Hi there, I feel the chickens are coming home to roost so to speak, you cannot keep having your emotions torn apart for much longer. You may have to sit down with him put all the cards on the table so he knows your true feelings about him, and fin... (read in full...)

Why wasn't I invited to meet his friends?

Q.   I'm not sure whether I'm over reacting so thought i'd get someone elses opinion on this one. My bf and I have been together for a year, and lived together for 6 months. I've never doubted his commitment to me -he seemed really keen on moving i...

A.   11 October 2010: Hi there, Talking from a guy's point of view, it is a bit weird he could have told his friend that it would be nice to take you to the party and introduce you to other friends of his. You sound like a sensible and level headed person, so y... (read in full...)

Breasts or nipples?

Q.   My question might be a little hard to answer but for starters some guys, well a lot of guys like big breasts on a woman but will tell a woman that has really small breasts that more than a hand full is a waste but what I was wanting to know is this: ...

A.   6 October 2010: I agree with caring guy, i love everything its all a bonus and whatever size package you lovely ladies come in, i'm sure us men will appreciate the experience.... (read in full...)

Where does our marriage go from here?

Q.   i recently found out that my husband of 8 years went to a lapdancing club and paid for a private dance and tried to touch the stripper, this happened 6 years ago. i found out from a freind that thought i knew. he tried to deny it at first, then he ...

A.   6 October 2010:  I agree with aunt honesty, 6 yrs ago is water under the bridge, talk to him and work on it together. Good luck... (read in full...)

Abusive ex, back in touch.

Q.   One year ago I split from am extremely abusive boyfriend. My boyfriend knows everything that I can possibly think to tell him about that relationship. But recently my abusive ex has been back in touch and has told me he wants me back. I told him I ...

A.   3 October 2010: Hi there, Sounds like you have moved on and very happy with your present boyfriend, it is understandable that you did not want to worry your boyfriend, just remember a problem shared is a problem halved, and getting reassurance from your boyfrien... (read in full...)

Are all relationships like this?

Q.   How happy can one really expect to be in the relationship. I am starting to think that living with most man is kind of a boring routine, that includes their excessive computer use, lack of sexual and romantic interest after the initial stages of ...

A.   3 October 2010: I guess different people have there own take on what expectations you get from a relationship, it is a good question that you ask, not an easy one to answer, it is a combination of so many emotions, compatability is one of the keys (says him), ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years. Within the first year he was always kissing me, cuddling me, etc....but now he barely comes near me. It's ME who's always going to HIM, i've tried that thing where 'you let them come to you' but i ...

A.   3 October 2010: You sound like a nice person, and the answers people have given you are really good, it is hard to know what to do, and there could be a combination of things that are causing him to react like this. I have had my own personal experience with some... (read in full...)

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