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All of my boyfriend passwords are his ex's name!

Q.   One day my boyfriend was looking through/deleting old emails while I was sitting next to him and he opened an email with his facebook password in it. I saw that his password was his first love's name. I asked him about it and he said it was nothing. ...

A.   24 January 2011: I wouldnt worry, one of my passwords its the date a previous boyfriend and i got together. I only use it because i havent bothered to change it, and i now remember it having used it for ages. However i wouldnt mind if my current boyfrien... (read in full...)

(Why) do women prefer bad boys?

Q.   I've got a new question for you, inspired by another post... One for the ladies, and one for the men :) When I range my friends on a scale from bad-boy til decent, and compare it with their success with dating (not necessary including happy ...

A.   13 January 2011: " I see a strong relation between their "badness" and their success-rate..." I think it may be to do with confidence. Often these type of boys have no problem approaching a girl, getting her number etc. When as other types can be more shy. Ob... (read in full...)

How far should a 14 year old go sexually?

Q.   Hey everyone! I have been wanting an answer to this question for a while, so your opinion would mean a lot to me. :) I am 14 years old and have been dating boy for a year and a half now. He was very innocent at first which was very unexpected....

A.   13 January 2011: Everyone has these thoughts as a teenager, its part of growing up! All teenagers are curious from time to time and have the desire to experiment sexually. Its just down to you to control them and be responsible. Its perfectly normal :)... (read in full...)

Help with oral and vaginal sex!

Q.   [Mod note: 2 questions by the same poster combined.] Q. Okay, me and my boyfriend have been dating a year. I'm in love with him he's the most amazing person I've ever meet and he has taking everything slow and not rushed me into anything it was 7 mo...

A.   12 January 2011: Its great you want to use condoms as well as birth control. This will significantly reduce the chances of you becoming pregnant if one method fails. If your mum is open with you, you could explain the situation to her. Say you havent had sex but ... (read in full...)

How far should a 14 year old go sexually?

Q.   Hey everyone! I have been wanting an answer to this question for a while, so your opinion would mean a lot to me. :) I am 14 years old and have been dating boy for a year and a half now. He was very innocent at first which was very unexpected....

A.   12 January 2011: My sister lost her virginity at 14. A year later she really regrets it. As a do a lot of teenagers who have sex too young. There are many consequences to sex that you may not be ready for; not just pregnancy. Sex changes a relationship. Sometime... (read in full...)

Using lubricant for sex makes me feel useless! Is there anything I can do?

Q.   When me and my boyfriend have sex i feel in the moment but then i just like become unwet. it is horrible and now i feel like he is getting mad at me for it even though i cant control it. im kinda anti lube.. no clue why it just makes me feel weird. ...

A.   12 January 2011: Think about what turns you on, and maybe experiment with that before sex? Sometimes if im a bit dry my boyfriend will give me oral for a short time - this could then make it easier :) Your boyfriend may only be focusing on his needs; make sure he... (read in full...)

I'm frustrated that my boyfriend is watching porn all the time

Q.   my boyfriend is always watching porno and more often murstabating. we dont have sex alot and i do like sex i hate what he is doing because he is always hiding and i alwazs know when hes doing it one time i asked him if am not enough for him and a...

A.   12 January 2011: A fair amount of guys watch porn but i do know a few who don't. The part that worried me a bit was "the other time we were staying in the hotel and he waits till i feel sleepz and sazys go to sleep so that he can wacth porno and murstabates"... (read in full...)

From phone to meeting in person: how can I make it natural, not awkward?

Q.   Hello all! I've been talking to a guy for nearly 3 years on the phone. I just wondered when we do meet in person how can I make it where the situation won't be so awkward?...

A.   11 January 2011: I'd suggest arranging to see a movie? That way you get to spend time with him without the pressure of conversation. If this goes well you could go for dinner after? If you don't like those options you could ask him what he would like to do? G... (read in full...)

My girlfriend told me I was the best kisser she's ever kissed, when she asked me I told her she wasn't the worst!

Q.   The other day my girlfriend and I were together, and we were happy and flirty as usual. Then she brought up that I was the best kisser out of any of the boyfriends she has had. Then she asked how she was, and when I thought about it in my head, I ...

A.   11 January 2011: Oops! All you can do is apologise, tell her you love her kisses. That response was probably just a bit of panic. She'll get over it eventually - just reassure her :)... (read in full...)

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