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Did I do something wrong by refusing to pay for my wife's new dress?

Q.   Hi, I really got to get this out as I don't know what I am doing wrong, maybe there are some factos which I am not taking into account. My wife and I are both young working professionals, my salary is higher than hers by around 30%. We bough...

A.   28 October 2011: Oh I would say that you are doing exactly the right thing. You paid for a lot of things and let's face it, you are both just professionals and not trust fund babies where you can go Louis Vuitton all the time. It is very important to save, ... (read in full...)

Tired of dreaming about my ex boyfriend.

Q.   My boyfriend and I stopped seeing each other two weeks ago. We were seeing each other for several months. I will admit that it killed me, but in hindsight I have come to terms that our lifestyles weren't compatible and that this would have happened ...

A.   28 October 2011: Awwww dear. Here is a big hug for you. You are doing all the right things - cleaning, spending time with friends, not drunk dialing etc.. Getting over someone, especially if it is someone you had strong feelings for, is extremely hard. D... (read in full...)

Please help me figure out the female mind

Q.   Why do girls act so strange? I have a huge crush on one of my co workers and I have been told by 2 of the girls we work with that she likes me too. We hang out all the time at work and even recently outside of work. I month ago I asked her out and ...

A.   28 October 2011: She sounds flirty. I would say she is probably playing with your mind - because you seem kind of gullible. Some girls loves playing with guys like that. I could be wrong. ... (read in full...)

He said he'd come over, I gave up, he then left a message. I ignored it. Did I do the right thing?

Q.   Hi I just started dating some one! He called me last night said he wanted to seeme before leaving town. His daughter called him and wanted him to come and see her before he left town. He ask me if he could come over when he got back from his ...

A.   28 October 2011: Errrrnnn..I would say you shouldn't do that. He is going through a difficult time - the funeral and everything. I am sure his daughter is also having hard feelings. He seems to be a responsible man by calling afterwards at 11PM and again the ... (read in full...)

What exactly constitutes a "first move"? And how can I be sure that I have not made the first move?

Q.   Hi, I was just reading another post and one of the answers was to NEVER make the first move and I suddenly thought "S***! I don't know if I accidentally made a first move or not!" I understand the psychology behind this idea - that some guys l...

A.   28 October 2011: Yea I guess I understand your pain. While I am still young and not entirely fully experienced in everything, I would say that if the attraction between you two are indeed very strong, it really doesn't matter who made the first move or who said the ... (read in full...)

I'm wondering if I should initiate yet another conversation or just wait for him to come around?

Q.   I met someone at work that I an very interested in. Each time we have chatted, the convo was initiated by me. I found out that he is single and is interested in me. So I'm waiting for him to initiate a conversation for once or approach me and he ...

A.   28 October 2011: How did you find out that he is also interested in you? Can you be sure? From my limited experience, I find that if a guy is truly interested in you, he will go out of his way to get closer to you. That includes talking to you even if he is sh... (read in full...)

She says she loves me so why does she turn me down?

Q.   I once proposed a girl and she turned me down,however she contied relying on me for anything she wanted.she started making sexy moves towards me but if i try to propose again she dismises the issue.if i cal her to go out for lunch she turns me ...

A.   25 October 2011: How about she is toying with you? The truth is obvious enough. If she truly loves you, she won't do this. If she is doing this, it means she doesn't love you.... (read in full...)

What do I say in an anniversary card when husband doesn't love me anymore?

Q.   It will in two days be my 10'th anniversary but me and my husband have been seperated we still in contact I want us to work on our relationship and send him an anniversay card what, do I say in the card? He told me that he does not love me anymore ...

A.   25 October 2011: Just say something honest and sincere - what is truly on your mind. Don't expect him to reciprocate or anything, just say what you want to say. ... (read in full...)

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