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writes:I met someone at work that I an very interested in. Each time we have chatted, the convo was initiated by me. I found out that he is single and is interested in me. So I'm waiting for him to initiate a conversation for once or approach me and he hasnt. it's been about a week since we last chatted. He seems to be pretty outgoing so I don't think it's because he's too shy. But I'm sitting here wondering why, if he is interested, has he not made a move by now? And I'm wondering if I should initiate yet another convo or just wait for him to come around?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCuddlyLovely, I found out that he is interested through a mutual friend. She told him I asked if he was single and he expressed interest through her.
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reader, CuddlyLovely  +, writes (28 October 2011):
How did you find out that he is also interested in you? Can you be sure?
From my limited experience, I find that if a guy is truly interested in you, he will go out of his way to get closer to you. That includes talking to you even if he is shy, staring at you a little bit more etc.
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reader, Ciar +, writes (28 October 2011):
 Wait for him to come around. You've already given him the green light to approach you. He'll have to take the next step.
If you're always initiating contact then he'll get too comfortable and will control the relationship (if one developes).
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