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His daughter is ruining our relationship!

Q.   I been in a relationship for 4 years he's 59 and I'm 41. I have no kids, he has 2 boys and one of his girls is 35 years old and the other 32. The one girl is a pain; she's married to an army guy and has a daughter. Her boyfriend pays her electric ...

A.   25 April 2011: There is no competition between you and his daughter. She may be spoiled, but you must remember, the father spoils the daughter out of his love for her, and a father's love is a father's love. You can't ask a man to choose between you and his ... (read in full...)

Old boyfriend perfect...new boy...exciting

Q.   hey everyone okay heres the deal ive been with this guy for three years.. and i love him i think. but i met this guy not long ago and he seems nice and he flirts with me and i have to admit i flirt with him. hes exciting and new but i feel bad a...

A.   25 April 2011: You're always going to have these temptations, even when you're married. Flirting never leads to anything good for the ones who are already in a relationship. Learning to resist the new, exciting temptation is going to be hard, especially w... (read in full...)

Is it ok to ask a married man out for coffee?

Q.   Hi everybody. First time here. Could use your advice. I am friendly with a married man. Our sons go to karate together. We talk a lot when we see each other twice a week. He always finds me to talk and seems to enjoy my company. I enjoy his compan...

A.   25 April 2011: I think it may be ok (considering the kids in karate, and it's nice to have someone to talk to during practice). That being said, the only time I would ask him to coffee is ONLY during practice time, so that there is a time frame that doesnt a... (read in full...)

I just need something to help me get through the day

Q.   So I've been dating/engaged to this girl for 4.5 years. On the second of February she says she doesnt think she's supposed to be in a relationship and that she needs to work on her relationship with Jesus and has a peace about it so she knows it'...

A.   25 April 2011: Thanks for the advice so far, I am definitely trying to keep myself busy and my mnd off things. We have talked about it a little, not as much as I really wanted to, but I felt like she was getting upset talking about it so I quit talking about it. ... (read in full...)

How do I confirm when a really quiet guy is trying to get my attention?

Q.   I wanted to know how you can tell if a quiet guy is trying to get your attention. The guy I like is pretty quiet. He has sat behind me a couple times in class and makes tons of noise rattling things around. Whenever I turn around to look at him, ...

A.   24 April 2011: He's just shy, tell him how you feel.... (read in full...)

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