I Told my cousin I like her. She said no but we're still good friends.
Q. For about a week or two now I have been tormented with a realization. I fell in love with my first cousin. The more I tried to ignore it, and pretend it wasn't there (I live with her and her brothers) the more obvious it became that something was ...
A. 13 September 2010: Just don't appear as desperate or obsessed. Try not to make it TOO much a point about how it is totally okay to be together (Even though it is).
But you shouldn't make a move on her while she is still with another person, that's not cool. It... (read in full...)
I like it when my cousin talks about sex but should I go along with it?
Q. I'm 15 and a male , i have liked my 21 year old female cousin for almost 2 years now and 2 months ago she start to act different around me talk about her relationships and much more sexual information , so recently i told her that i liked her and ...
A. 5 September 2010: Well, you need to ask yourself why you don't think you should go. What are your doubts? Are you afraid something might happen? Are you afraid something will happen and a friend/relative will find out? Are you afraid that you're misinterpreting her ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 4 September 2010: Little sex slavery of men? Maybe in the western world, but sex slavery of young boys is just as big in the Middle East, and south east asian countries. The only difference between female and male sex trade is that only the female side ever seems to ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can suggest instead of porn blocking software that would be fair on both of us, and that would make him stop lying to my face?
Q. Towards the beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend I found out he looked at porn. I asked him not to, because the thought of it made me feel very insecure. He agreed, and promised that he'd stop looking. But he didn't, and after a while a ...
A. 3 September 2010: Likening his reaction to you looking at a poster of Bruno as jealousy is seriously faulty. Have you taken into consideration how he feels about the movie? I thought it was tasteless and dumb. How do you know if the feelings he expressed were not ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 3 September 2010: Clearly you jest correct? Person? How are men less objectified then woman? There is a LOT of camera focus on the phallus, how else could they appeal to heterosexual women if they didn't get to see a dick? There's less emphasis on the man because ... (read in full...)
I like it when my cousin talks about sex but should I go along with it?
Q. I'm 15 and a male , i have liked my 21 year old female cousin for almost 2 years now and 2 months ago she start to act different around me talk about her relationships and much more sexual information , so recently i told her that i liked her and ...
A. 3 September 2010: Well, there is the issue of age, you're young, probably just into high school, you're inexperience with romacne. You should realize that what she is doing is putting herself at risk, since it is illegal to have sex with a minor. And you need to talk ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 3 September 2010: The idea that women are objectified in porn (Or fashion) is silly. And beyond that, it's completely absurd how people take this as evidence women are unequal to men or something.
It's like they forget that the men of the porn industry even exi... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can suggest instead of porn blocking software that would be fair on both of us, and that would make him stop lying to my face?
Q. Towards the beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend I found out he looked at porn. I asked him not to, because the thought of it made me feel very insecure. He agreed, and promised that he'd stop looking. But he didn't, and after a while a ...
A. 3 September 2010: If you give him an 'ultimatum' you will seriously damage, if not end your relationship with him. Men hate to be or feel controlled, or that their lifestyle choices are 'unacceptable' And this 'ultimatum' will only drive him away from you, the answer ... (read in full...)
Help! My religious beliefs prevent pre-marital sex and my boyfriend's demands are so scary!
Q. hey The guy he loves me he is not from my country,,,well i luv him and he luv me alot he said 2 me he want 2 have sex with me and i was shocked because he knowing that i cant have sex before marry its forbidden in my religion then he said ok (i wi...
A. 3 September 2010: You two shouldn't even be together, whatever you feel this misguided love is. Clearly your beliefs are too different to last. If you're not willing to go all the way with him, find some celibate who will.... (read in full...)
The person I love is in an incestrous relationship... and I'm shocked!
Q. i am in love with a girl in my class we were friends since childhood, shes cute and smart and am totally over her so i wanted to confess to her but when i came to her house(we use to studying maths together) saw her making out savagely with her ...
A. 3 September 2010: It's not your right to interfere with their relationship, regardless of what you may think. It's bad enough you judge her. In reality, you only seem to be using the fact he is her brother as an outlet for being upset she is taken. If it were any b... (read in full...)
I've lost so much respect for him because of his porn use
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating 1 year and a half, I love him but I've lost so much respect for him because of his porn use. I find his internet history full of porn videos, with titles like illegal teens, incest, and other disgusting things ...
A. 3 September 2010: If he is neglecting you for porn, he could either have a serious porn addiction (Yes, there is such a thing) or your interests could seriously just be too different and he uses porn as an outlet for his sexual frustration. The main differentia... (read in full...)
What do these incestual feelings mean?
Q. Hello. I'm only after hitting puberty, I'm a girl and I've recently been turned on by incest - I read it but I wouldn't act it out. Then I noticed i felt weird feelings towards my dad but I shrugged them off. Now they are back and I don't know wha...
A. 3 September 2010: I also have an attraction to Incest. There's nothing wrong with Incest itself, but you seriously can't be with a parent. I don't really know how to explain it, there's just too much potential for things to go bad and drama.
Just stick with Inc... (read in full...)
Am I crazy to think I love this girl?
Q. I met this girl about 7 months ago and we're really into each other. There's just some things involved. The biggest one being the 900 miles apart. She's 16 and I'm 18, and we know that we can't have sex with each other until she's 18. But sh...
A. 3 September 2010: You're not crazy. But it will take a lot of commitment if you want to remain with her, on both your parts. Especially since you're going into the USAF. (Although, it could become a boon if you can get yourself stationed closer to her).
I am in a ... (read in full...)
Is sex between siblings bad?
Q. i would like to know if sex between siblings, is bad or actually a taboo? and why? is it just because of society norms? is it because we have been born and educated with the thought that it is bad, even though we have experimented when we were kids? ...
A. 3 September 2010: I'm personally shocked and appalled by some of the blatantly intolerant and ignorant replies here. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a consensual adult relationship, regardless of blood. These arguments are about as prejudiced as the railing of ... (read in full...)
My family is blackmailing me because they found out I'm dating my cousin!
Q. Ok, so i've been dating my cousin for about almost 7 years an we've managed to keep it a secret until recently. My sister and my brother found out and they been blackmailing me so they won't tell my family. I can't be around him or go out with him ...
A. 3 September 2010: You need to stand up for yourself. Don't allow your siblings to check your phone or tell you where you can or cannot go and when. Blackmail is a serious criminal offense, and a relationship with your cousin is legal in most of the free world (... (read in full...)
I am in love with my brother!
Q. Me and my brother are in love with each other. He is not that related to me but from the same kindred. The problem is that we can't tell each other how we feel and its killing me inside and even if we should do, we can't date cos he is my brother. ...
A. 3 September 2010: It's your life, your decision. There is nothing 'wrong' about wanting to date your sibling. You should only worry if it will ruin whatever platonic relationship you have now (As is the case with dating anyone)
Before you confess, try to gauge wh... (read in full...)
I like my oldest step brother but my mum told me not to fool around with him!
Q. I'm getting 2 step brothers and I'm sorta starting to like the oldest one, B.he's the same age as me and about a month ago he wanted to fool around but I stopped it cause my mom had a chat with me saying it was wrong to fool around with each other ...
A. 3 September 2010: First of all, it's ridiculous to be expected to 'keep away' from a relationship with a sibling, in law or not. It's your lives, nobody gets to dictate who either of you should or should not see.
However, you're young, and you're both teenager... (read in full...)
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