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reader, CommandoDude  +, writes (3 September 2010):
 It's not your right to interfere with their relationship, regardless of what you may think. It's bad enough you judge her.In reality, you only seem to be using the fact he is her brother as an outlet for being upset she is taken. If it were any body else you'd still be angry and she'd still be unavailable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009): Shuhyb, i am glad you sent us an update. As awful as it is at least now you know not to waste any more time on her. This thing about her knowing that you would keep her secret, well, she is taking extreme liberties ,isn’t it? i just think that you need to stay away from her and her brother. You are a good kid, with a good head on your shoulders who shouldn’t be dragged into this mess. She knows that having sex with her brother is wrong yet she doesn’t care. Seems like this girl doesn’t care for right vs wrong. Please, don’t mess your life with this one – steer clear from her. She is trouble! In your country there are strict rules regarding what is perceived as right and wrong. Sleeping with ones brother is definitely wrong. Don’t let this girl use you to cover up her sickness. Just run away from her.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 December 2009):
 It's a real pity that she is not the girl you thought she was, but I am happy that you have finally seen past your desire for her. I hope you can manage to cope with your disappointment. Now that your parents know too, they can help you get over your crush on her.
Take care.
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reader, shuhyb  +, writes (5 December 2009):
shuhyb is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni am finally conviced that theres no way i can be with her.she gave me straight truth she confessed that she and her brother are lovers! and she trusts me not to tell anyone because i am her ''bestfriend''?!:total turnoff:.the worst thing is that she knows its wrong but doesn't care.all this timei was chasing aftr a fantasy that couldnt happen,too stupid not to realize even after seeing what u guys wrote shes wasted tanks to her bro whos not half beautiful as her.the person you love is in.....this sux
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): LEAVE HER ALONE, she was never ever going out with you! Why do you have to be so overpossessive? Don't tell anyone. Gosh stop fascinating over this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): she was never with you in the first place so you cannot go and beat her boyfriend up regardless of the fact he is her brother. not only is it stupid but immature of you to think of such a thing. if you ever want a chance to be with her then leave her to do her own thing.
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reader, shuhyb +, writes (4 December 2009):
shuhyb is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni talked to my parents about this (said i have a friend who had this issue)they reccomended that i tell their parents,their mother is not there [dead],so it should be their dad.Sounds a good idea....?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009): The correct answer:
You should have blackmailed both of them into giving you sexual favors.
What is going on with today's youth? Come on young people, use your internet-driven preciosity and unlimited individual freedom to solve your own problems. Do we have to remind you that 1+1=2 ? Wake up.
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reader, Runewyrm  +, writes (2 December 2009):
 No do not threaten the brother in any way. You can't do anything to make this situation better. This is a lose -lose situation no good can come of anything you may be thinking of doing. Violence or the threat of it is no way to go. And as for meeting up with her, that is your choice but if it were me i would be very cautious about going, and i proberly wouldn't meet her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): yes, stay away from her and her sick family. you are too young to be messed up in this.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (2 December 2009):
I would keep a distance between you for now. You are too emotional about this.
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reader, shuhyb +, writes (2 December 2009):
shuhyb is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe text me she wants to meet me after school she seems happy should i reject
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): I really HEAVILY doubt she'll like you if you expose thier relationship - she will HATE you, i mean you are onnly math buddies you desperado!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (2 December 2009):
You should not put yourself in the middle of this. It is a bad idea. You are trying to fix something that you know nothing about and it will backfire on you. Leave it be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): i say leave it well , alone thats just wrong and incest relationships can result in deformed children etc. and know it will be weird when you see her next but just act normal dont act unusual as she will know somethings wrong . and NO VIOLENCE towards him either . violence is never the answer dear :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): i say leave it well , alone thats just wrong and incest relationships can result in deformed children etc. and know it will be weird when you see her next but just act normal dont act unusual as she will know somethings wrong . and NO VIOLENCE towards him either . violence is never the answer dear :)
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reader, shuhyb +, writes (1 December 2009):
shuhyb is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know how to get her i will threaten her brother to break with her by exposing their relationship.this way she will think that her brother abadoned her.this is the best for her both right????!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (1 December 2009):
I think you need to recognize that this girl has some issues if she is involved romantically with her brother. She may not love you when this ends, if it ever does. She certainly won't thank you for beating up her brother or breaking their bond. That will not be welcome from you.
Look, you are in a no-win situation. She may be a lovely girl and very attractive to you, but this is not a normal girl.
Seriously, walk away from her. Talk to your parents if you are going crazy.
This will only end in tears.
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reader, shuhyb +, writes (1 December 2009):
shuhyb is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni believe shes sixteen and her brother eighteen or nineteen but but does this matter?will she like me when this relationship is broken?
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reader, shuhyb +, writes (1 December 2009):
shuhyb is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok i will wait and do nothing for now.i am restless,how can i see her tommorrow?thats another problem! what should i do we are in the same class ahhhh! am going crazy
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): How can't you believe she did this? She never said that she was in love with you after all, leave her be to sort her own problem out
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reader, Runewyrm +, writes (1 December 2009):
Stay as far away from this problem as possible. It's easy for us to say because we arent involved but if you get involved in any way you will severly regret it. Leave this situation well alone.
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reader, doom  +, writes (1 December 2009):
 does this things till happen? or this is a joke, or on the other hand you should really forget that girl!! cause, it's unetheticaly,immoral..and discasting..
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (1 December 2009):
Stay far far away from this one; you do NOT want to get in the middle of this family situation. You sound very emotional about this, but honestly, this is none of your business, what she does with whom is not your concern.
I don't like that she's making out with her brother either, please understand me, I'm not condoning the behavior. What I am trying to say is that your involvement will only compound an already touchy problem.
Run the other way. If it really continues to bother you, have a discussion with your parents about it; they may have some good insight for you.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): Confront her with it. How old is she and how old is her brother?
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