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Does anyone have any ideas how to actually go out with the guy who asks me out..instead of deleting him?

Q.   Okay, I need help asap! I have been talking to this guy on facebook and he finally has asked me out. I have been asked out so many times in the past, but that is usually when I clam up and delete them as a friend. I want to have a relationship, but ...

A.   18 May 2010: How long have you been speaking to him? If you are going to meet him, stay safe!! Have you spoke on the phone? That's the next thing to do if you've not already. You delete men who ask you out - is this because of the past or because you aren't s... (read in full...)

How do I cope with being dumped by my boyfriend??

Q.   My boyfriend dumped me on saturday for another girl and I'm so hurt as we moved in together 6 months ago and I was starting to think about getting married. My mom passed away 4 months ago and my 13 yo brother was put in a group home. We were going ...

A.   18 May 2010: Oh Hun how sad. I am so sorry! You have had a very tough time over the last few months and now this! With regards coping without your bf it is always very difficult at the beginning but it gets easier as time goes on and one day when you are hap... (read in full...)

Why would he leave his health concerns for me to deal with?

Q.   Hi everyone, I'm having a problem with my boyfriend of 1.5 years, but I guess to understand I'll have to tell you a little about both of us. Me: 21, emotional, bad anxiety, not the most articulate, work for my dad. Him: 27, emotionally dead, par...

A.   17 May 2010: He has a very selfish manner about him, he seems to be happy as long as life is simple. It's easier if you travel to him, it's easier if the lump is nothing but it's easier for you if he travels to you because of your current situation! Talk to him, ... (read in full...)

Should I have a baby with my boyfriend? I'm scared of being sick!

Q.   Right me and my boyfriend have been together 1 1/2 years now.. his 22 and am 19 we have just come of a break but he is saying he wants us to have a baby.. i dont no how to feel about this as i have a phobia of being sick and morning sickness really ...

A.   17 May 2010: Hi, have you been to your dr about your phobia for a diagnosis? This type of phobia is emetophobia and is more common that people realise. I worked on a helpline for people with different phobias and this type came up a fair bit. It can be over... (read in full...)

I have a gut instinct that my partner is cheating on me. I do have past trust issues.

Q.   i have a gut instinct that my partner is cheating on me, but then i ask myself why would he cheat when i give him everything... i have sex with him everyday and i can tell i please him as he always wants sex with me, do any position he wants, give ...

A.   17 May 2010: I think you are insecure tbh. He probably would still have sex with you just not as often. You will notice changes with a cheat, e.g showering more often, less money, secret phone calls etc etc. I think you should forget your worries and enjoy what... (read in full...)

Does my fiance have something to hide?

Q.   My fiance and I bought a house in July. Turns out, a woman he knew in high school (also friends with her family) lives 1 mile up the road. He hadn't seen her since high school, but when she found out where he lives, she stops to see him. She has ...

A.   17 May 2010: A difficult one. I think that there was probably nothing in it whatsoever. Has there ever been anything between the two of them? If not then why do you think there is now? Maybe you and your husband need to sit down and calmly tell him how you feel... (read in full...)

"Stuck in the wrong relationship"

Q.   "OPs own title" hi, i have a really good friendship with this guy and i talk to him a lot but recently its been told that he fancies me and then he asked me out and well i said yes and everybody says were cute and great together but i don't feel ...

A.   17 May 2010: Aww I really feel for you and I understand that whatever you do will be difficult but I feel you need to tell him how you feel. You can't stay in a relationship when you don't love him. You are obviously with him to spare his feelings but it is best ... (read in full...)

Met another woman

Q.   Met someone and have feels for her. She is divorced with 3 children 39yrs. old. I am 49 and married, empty nester. My wife and I rarely have sex and sleep in separate quarters. The other woman is very nice, and laughs at all my jokes. I am starting ...

A.   17 May 2010: Lots go through this, we think the grass is greener on the other side butit seldom is. Talk to your wife, tell her how you are feeling. See If you can't be happy again with your wife. Good luck ... (read in full...)

Was it wrong for my husband to have "harmless" chats with other women?

Q.   Hi is it okay if you are married , deeply in love with your spouse and still have harmless chats with strangers ? In another country? Telephonic conversations etc . My husband did this stopped before i knew but i came to know later it was not sexual ...

A.   17 May 2010: Ok from personal experience I know how much this has hurt you maybe even angered you. But I don't understand why you call it harmless chats if you are hurting! You have feelings and he's broken trust. To move on fully you may need to understand from... (read in full...)

Does this prostitute have feelings for me or is she just using me for money?

Q.   I have meet a prostitute and enjoy her company immensely, her being a prostitute does not bother me, i am married not happly married, and prefer her company allthough it is on occaisionally, i think she likes me. the only thing when we go out out ...

A.   17 May 2010: She may well like you but she is more interested in your wallet than your heart mate. it's not up to me to judge you but whether I think prostitution or not, she isn't looking for love in you. Sorry but good luck... (read in full...)

How much "groping" is too much?

Q.   I love my girlfriend, and like I have seen both of our fathers do, I like to (in private) randomly grap my girlfriend's butt or boobs and maybe squeeze them, but never anything forceful. She'll laugh or say something like "oh yeah" in a "naughty ...

A.   17 May 2010: Ok, why do you feel this is dirty? Groping your partner is quite normal in a relationship. I quite often go in the kitchen and give my partners bum a squeeze or smack and he does the same to me. I know he enjoys what he sees by doing so. To ... (read in full...)

Does this sound like pregnancy?

Q.   Hello..okay I tried submitting this question and was denied cause its a common question. But I can't find one that matches mine. I need some advise as to what's going on with me. in May I visitrd my BF and was suppose to start my period on May ...

A.   16 May 2010: Yes you could be pregnant, some women have periods throughout their pregnancies but there are also things known as phantom pregnancies where you convince yourself that you are pregnant and think yourself into feeling pregnant e.g morning sickness. ... (read in full...)

I really care for my teacher and would like to give him a kiss on the cheek

Q.   Okay so I really really....like my teacher. I suppose I am not allowed to say Love. I would feel so bad if I did...he has 2 kids and a wife..but he does not seem that happy. I mean he does but at the same time he is kinda worn out from all of it. I ...

A.   16 May 2010: Don't go there! He is a married man with young children. You either need to jet accept that you'll only ever be friends or leave him alone! I live by the rule you should never try for someone who is taken, it'll only lead to heartache... (read in full...)

He said we are moving too fast but didn't break up with me, so what should I do?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months now. we spoke on the phone once a day. His 27 and I am over the last five days he's not be answering m texts and phone calls on the four day i got a message saying that he was sorry for not talking ...

A.   16 May 2010: Ok, you need to call him once, if he doesn't answer leave a message telling him that you need to talk to him asap. When you talk to him you need to ask him whether he wants to be with you. If he says he feels it's moving too fast be understanding ... (read in full...)

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