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Married, confused and could do with some objective views.

Q.   to give a bit of back ground i have been married for 13 years and been with my wife for nearly 16. she is a great person and a great mother to our 3 children (aged 11,12,13). we got to together at young age and had the old whirlwhind roman...

A.   6 December 2010: Good on you for taking the step forward, hard as it was. Have faith that what you are doing is the right thing. Just remember to be completely honest with each other. Best of luck... (read in full...)

Why wasn't I enough for him?

Q.   I am alone and he is with the girl he cheated on me with. Why did he do this? What did I do wrong? I made dinner for him every night or went and got it? Would try and do nice things for him once a day, dressed up in sultry lingerie every night? Went ...

A.   6 December 2010: "Why wasn't I enough for him" is something all of us ask when we are cheated on. I asked myself this not long ago when I found out about my husband's affair. The answer to this questions feels so important right now, specially when you are feel... (read in full...)

Bad marriage, potentially new guy.

Q.   I'm in a bad unsuccessful marriage, have a 1 y.o. son. I know that a single co-worker has a big crush on me. I'm attracted to him as well. Should I give it a try? I don't even think he knows I'm married. My marriage is a total joke, we don't even ...

A.   2 December 2010: If after thinking long and hard about your marriage you realise, you no longer want to be in it, then end it. Have enough respect for your self and your child and do the right thing. After that, pursue another relationship whether with this co ... (read in full...)

My sex drive has gone through the roof! So much so that I am even considering an affair, what should I do?

Q.   Dear forum I am coming to you for help as I there is no one else to turn to. I am 39 year old woman happily married for 13 years and a son.I love my husband dearly.My husband is the only man I have ever been with.The last couple of years my...

A.   2 December 2010: Nothing good comes out of cheating. Stop and think about what you are doing and work out whether sexual gratification is worth losing everything that is good in your life and causing a lot of pain to the people you love. Your husband and your son ... (read in full...)

Have you cheated on your partner and been able to have a good relationship / marriage afterwards? Share the story!

Q.   Does anyone have any stories about cheating on their partner and being able to have a good relationship after? Has anyone here cheated on their partner, NEVER told them, and been able to have a healthy long-term relationship with the person they ...

A.   29 November 2010: Nothing good comes out of cheating and lying. And yes, the truth always comes out sooner or later.... (read in full...)

I'm starting to feel like a paranoid psycho!!! Help!

Q.   Hi this is my first time using this and i stumbled on it looking for some answers to how i'v been feeling, to sum it up im currently feeling a bit like that song by katie melua closest thing to crazy!! Basically ive been with my boyfriend for almost ...

A.   26 November 2010: If you feel something is amiss...There probably is. There is no way to deal with this but confront him.... (read in full...)

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