16 and scared to have sex
Q. Im 16(virgen) my boyfriend his 20(not a virgin), we have dun about evrything,but im to scared to have sex with him. His also scared he dosent wanna get into trouble, and his scared to get me pregnat. I dont know what to do, what should i do? ...
A. 21 January 2009: If you're scared to do it, you're probably not ready.
Wait until you're comfortable with doing it. As for the pregnancy thing, if he is experienced, he should very well know that protection is necessary and a lot of the time, effective. There ar... (read in full...)
If I lose my virginity to a guy I don't love, won't it be easier?
Q. Im listening to the advice ppl give me bout waiting for sex, but i have another theory. i know a girls first time is special and something she will remember BUT, i dont know if i can lose it to someone i absolutely love, and then lose HIM. I have f...
A. 21 January 2009: A lot of girls don't think about this, but sex is not just a physical thing. There is so much emotional stuff that you deal with before and after.
I recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend who I am completely in love with. To be honest, ... (read in full...)
How to know when the time is right
Q. Virginity.. How do you know when yuur ready to lose it? How old would be a suggested age and how long should you be with a person. Any tips on the whole topic or virginity and sex at all would be helpful....
A. 20 January 2009: My boyfriend and I were together over a year before we had sex. (Which was very recently). Losing your virginity is not really something to take lightly. There is a lot that comes with it.
I don't believe that there is any age, really or time qua... (read in full...)
The first few times of sex, I don't understand why it's still uncomfortable.
Q. About a month ago, I told my boyfriend that I was ready to have sex. He told me that if I really thought that I was ready, then we could do it. I said that I was. (We were both virgins.) We had sex for the first time three nights ago. I knew that...
A. 20 January 2009: So, we tried again tonight. We waited a week between last time and this time.
When he first put in, it did hurt, and I thought that it was going to be painful again. However, after a few thrusts, there was no pain at all, and it actually felt goo... (read in full...)
The first few times of sex, I don't understand why it's still uncomfortable.
Q. About a month ago, I told my boyfriend that I was ready to have sex. He told me that if I really thought that I was ready, then we could do it. I said that I was. (We were both virgins.) We had sex for the first time three nights ago. I knew that...
A. 18 January 2009: We did it for a third time, and it still hurt, but that's okay. I'm staying positive about it. As long as he is satisfied from it, I'm happy.
We decided to wait a little longer between last time and next time to see if that might help. Maybe I ... (read in full...)
Is it ever wise to send the new gf an anonymous message about what a cheat her bf is?
Q. Is it ever wise to send the new girlfriend an anonymous message about what a cheat her boyfriend is? I figure I could do it a number of ways without anyone knowing. The old buzzard cheated with me on her, and even called her to say he was tired ...
A. 10 January 2009: You may not like it, but you should probably tell her. It would be best for it to come from him, but that is clearly not going to happen. I wouldn't let her continue to get deeper into it, knowing what you know. That is cruel, in my opinion. If you ... (read in full...)
Stepfather exposed himself to me!
Q. I know this is Long, but I need some advice.. I've been knowing my stepfather since I was 11. He was always the "cool" parent. We developed a close relationship, talking about all facts of life. He was the first one to know when I loss my virginit...
A. 10 January 2009: You are perfectly right to be upset. I do not believe that you are over-reacting at all. My best friend and her older sister were molested by their step-father. I did not find out until a few years later, and I pressured her to tell her mother.... (read in full...)
I've lost respect for my wife
Q. I have been married for 5 years now and i feel im losing respect for my wife and i don't know how i feel towards her. I feel like im flirting with other women, My wife is a really good woman but i don't feel like i am a good husband, we have...
A. 10 January 2009: I'm not married, so I really can't say that I know what I am talking about, but I have heard about married couples falling in and out of love a few times during marriage.
Whether or not you love your wife is a question that only you can answer. ... (read in full...)
I just need some advice about this situation and about relationships and dating in general.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 11 months now. In the beginning we took things really slow, we knew each other for about a month in half before we became a couple. We were doing so well until maybe 3 or 4 months into the relationship. ...
A. 10 January 2009: Laying in a bed with another girl and touching and such when you already have a girlfriend is definitely cheating. He told you that he could never have a relationship with her and then turned around and did that? Even if you weren't dating a... (read in full...)
The first few times of sex, I don't understand why it's still uncomfortable.
Q. About a month ago, I told my boyfriend that I was ready to have sex. He told me that if I really thought that I was ready, then we could do it. I said that I was. (We were both virgins.) We had sex for the first time three nights ago. I knew that...
A. 9 January 2009: Thank you for your response.
He and I have been progressing sexually for the past year, and we know very many ways to please each other. Even if he has no idea what my clitoris is by name, he does a very good job at stimulating it. In fact, he... (read in full...)
The first few times of sex, I don't understand why it's still uncomfortable.
Q. About a month ago, I told my boyfriend that I was ready to have sex. He told me that if I really thought that I was ready, then we could do it. I said that I was. (We were both virgins.) We had sex for the first time three nights ago. I knew that...
A. 9 January 2009: Thank you for your response.
He and I know very well how to please each other, and though I'm not sure that he has any idea at all what a clitoris is, he does a very good job at stimulating it. In fact, I think he may have wanted to bring me to or... (read in full...)
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