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My ex misses the sex but wants to be single!

Q.   Hi, my girlfriend of 14 months broke up with me a month ago. I acted like an arrogant so and so.. and deserved to be dumped. As I wouldn't stop talking to my ex. When she left me i saw the error of my ways and stopped talking to my ex. I told he...

A.   18 January 2011: I had a conversation with her tonight and she told me that she slept with her ex a week after we broke up. Part of me is angry, but the other part doesn't really care as we weren't together and she said she did it to spite me but regretted it ... (read in full...)

My ex misses the sex but wants to be single!

Q.   Hi, my girlfriend of 14 months broke up with me a month ago. I acted like an arrogant so and so.. and deserved to be dumped. As I wouldn't stop talking to my ex. When she left me i saw the error of my ways and stopped talking to my ex. I told he...

A.   17 January 2011: Thanks for the responses. I agree with you, I don't feel like I am owed another chance. I just know I have changed and know I can give her everything she wants. Her reluctance to walk away just confirms this. It is a confusing situation. I just h... (read in full...)

Is it a good idea to have break up sex?

Q.   My girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago, at the beginning of December. We had been dating for 14 months. I fully understood her decision to break up with me, as I had struggled to get over a previous ex, which caused my girlfriend to fall out ...

A.   2 January 2011: Thank you for your advice. I'm going to ask to meet her in neutral surroundings and try to talk to her about how she is feeling. As she obviously has contradicting emotions about whether she wants to be with me. I would hate to get to the poin... (read in full...)

Is it a good idea to have break up sex?

Q.   My girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago, at the beginning of December. We had been dating for 14 months. I fully understood her decision to break up with me, as I had struggled to get over a previous ex, which caused my girlfriend to fall out ...

A.   2 January 2011: I think her thinking if that she thinks it will bring us [her] closure. She has stated that she wants to be single, but she has kissed some guy a couple of times... but he is a lot older than her and also has a kid and lives with the child's ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is having an arranged marriage! I'm devastated! What should I do?

Q.   I found out yesterday my girlfriend who I have been with for 17 months is engaged and due to be married this month. She informed me she was going on holiday to Bangladesh about 5 months ago and left last month. I have been counting down th...

A.   14 August 2009: Thanks for your advice Starlights. I agree that it is better that it happened now, rather than in a few years. I still want to talk to her and try and get some answers, but she has turned her phone off. She text me two weeks ago, telling me she r... (read in full...)

Is it because of excessively watching porn videos that I have difficulty in maintaining an erection?

Q.   who thinks that the porn industry wrecks men's sex lives? who thinks porn and to much sexual images causes damage in erections? the reason im asking this question is because for many years i used to masterbate to porn ( 11 years to be exact) b...

A.   23 June 2008: 'i cant help feeling the porn industry wont be around in another 20 years' May I ask how old you are? Porn will always be around and it will only get bigger and more varied. Porn = money. Being anxious and nervous is a problem of yours, i... (read in full...)

My girlfriend thinks I am sexually unattractive

Q.   Hi, I just got off the phone to my girlfriend and we have been having problems lately. She said the problems were due to her not finding me sexually attractive due to me not being 'big' enough. She said big as in how i was built and that I'm too...

A.   19 May 2008: Thanks for your advice. I'm aged 21, but she is my first serious girlfriend and my first sexual partner. So i am very inexperienced. Well, we are on a 2 week break from each other at the moment, so that might have a positive effect. I booked a... (read in full...)

My girlfriend thinks I am sexually unattractive

Q.   Hi, I just got off the phone to my girlfriend and we have been having problems lately. She said the problems were due to her not finding me sexually attractive due to me not being 'big' enough. She said big as in how i was built and that I'm too...

A.   19 May 2008: This makes sense. I have been having some problems. We have only tried one position in 2 months we have been together. I'm not able to get erect enough to do doggy. And have problems with erectness all the time. Think i need to see a doctor. ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend thinks I am sexually unattractive

Q.   Hi, I just got off the phone to my girlfriend and we have been having problems lately. She said the problems were due to her not finding me sexually attractive due to me not being 'big' enough. She said big as in how i was built and that I'm too...

A.   18 May 2008: Thanks for the advice. I spoke to her today and she said that it was because she feels like an elephant compared to me. As she is a lot bigger than me. Taking a two week break from her and will see what happens. ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend lied about where she was last week. Should I drop the matter apologising for snooping or push the subject to find out more?

Q.   Ok, i've been dating this girl for just over a year and i just caught her in a lie. Last week i was at work and she told me she was going horseback riding which didn't bother none cause that's what she loves to do. Only today i decided to get snoo...

A.   11 May 2008: Hmm, this is a tricky one. Because she will wonder why you were checking her phone, which will cause her to have doubts over whether she can trust you and also she will be aware that you obviously don't trust 100% to be checking her texts. I agr... (read in full...)

Will she go back to her ex?

Q.   hi. ive met this girl and we get on great and i really like her. the problem i have shes just recently come out of a long relationship. it ended because he slept with someone behind her back. that was a while ago but she took him back but she sed ...

A.   11 May 2008: Hi, I think that honesty is really key in this situation. If she can be 100% honest with you and open up about how she feels, then you have no reason to question whether she will get back together with her ex. I had exactly the same situation w... (read in full...)

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