He wants friends with benefits but I'm a virgin. Do I tell him?
Q. I'm 20 and part of me is worried I'm still a virgin but the other part i don't care and it's something I am proud of because I have done it out of choice. I don't want to lose it in a one night stand even though theres been several oppotunities. I ...
A. 11 July 2010: Don't be worried that you are still a virgin. It isn't a crime, and you don't owe anybody an explanation. Once it's gone, it's gone, and there's no getting it back, so you are justified in being careful. Don't even discuss it with this guy. T... (read in full...)
Help! I stumbled across his porn!
Q. Hi, so I was sending an email from my boyfriends laptop and went to attach my CV to it and the last thing he had been accessing on his laptop came up first - this happened to be a folder containing photos of naked celebrity women. I was quite shoc...
A. 11 July 2010: Everything I've read about porn addiction in men is that it is VERY SERIOUS and DESTROYS RELATIONSHIPS. Take this VERY SERIOUSLY. This is not something that is going to be helped by you initiating sex, or trying to talk about it, etc. If you ar... (read in full...)
I just had a baby with my boyfriend, but caught him making sexual advances towards my best friend!
Q. I'm currently in a very annoying and awkward situation. My boyfriend of 3 yrs, whom I have an infant with, and my best friend of 3 yrs were caught red-handed, by me, this morning making sexual advances at one another in my freakin garage!! I saw ...
A. 11 July 2010: Sandman is correct. It's over -- your best friend is now your ex-friend, and your boyfriend is now your ex-boyfriend. DHR should be able to give you guidance with regard to child support, which you MUST do for the sake of your child. Even if you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't tell anyone I'm his girlfriend!
Q. My Turkish Boyfriend Keeps Me A Secret - What Should I Do? We've been together for 2years now and he wont tell anybody about me. He says he had fights with his family over his ex and thats why he wont. He is 30years old. I think if he loves ...
A. 11 July 2010: Listen to me, sweetheart: you should not have to MAKE someone understand you, or "get something" into his head. No one can help you do that, because it cannot be done. HE has to do that, and if he loved you he would already be doing it. You alrea... (read in full...)
I'm living with my husband for the sake of our children, what should I do?
Q. Im married for 15 years but just cudnt connect with my husband emotinaly...thot of breaking my marriage many a times but tried my best to change as per his requirments.....over the perid i felt i more like a door mat for him and to his entire family ...
A. 11 July 2010: My condolences, sweetheart.
If you are married and you have children, you are obligated to make at least one serious effort to make it work. That means having a serious (not confrontational) conversation with your husband, telling him how you feel... (read in full...)
I'm dying with her love so should I just wait?
Q. am tilly having a big problem that i dont even no what to do now and i guess i can get help from here,am a lasbo.i was goin out wit a gal called yaa,when we were goin out i didnt lov her but i was keepin her to find someone that i could be happy ...
A. 11 July 2010: In all seriousness, dear, you don't need advice. You need counseling. Straight or gay, all this deceitfulness and confusion is not healthy. Step back and get some help before you go any further. You are using people, and you are letting them use ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay???
Q. Is my boyfriend gay? I have questioned my boyfriend's sexuality a bit in our relationship. He is not exactly metrosexual, but he has some interesting tendancies. He is always concerned about his appearance, although he doesn't know the difference ...
A. 11 July 2010: Good grief. Let me get this straight (no pun intended): he has no interest in your breasts (he actually keeps them covered when he has sex with you), he LOVES giving you anal sex, you think his father is gay, he didn't mind when you questioned his ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend a bisexual or gay?
Q. I have a boyfriend who lives in a gay village in montreal, He stays with a 60 year old guy (apparently gay). But according to my boyfriend that this guy has been a very good friend of him for years now, and that they're just friends like a family. ...
A. 11 July 2010: Good GRIEF! He's living in a gay village with a gay man that he "married" and you ask if he is gay???? WAKE UP, GIRLFRIEND.... (read in full...)
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