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In a relationship with my total opposite, can this work?

Q.   You know how they say opposites attract? Well I found my complete opposite. I'm having doubts if a relationship with him is possible. First I'm 25 so I feel like I have no time to waste on finding a guy Since I'm not getting any younger. I don't...

A.   9 August 2011: I quote....First I'm 25 so I feel like I have no time to waste on finding a guy Since I'm not getting any younger. He seems to feel like there is chemistry? and what do you feel? 25?? my goodness you are a mere slip of a girl! lol There are... (read in full...)

Do I try meeting someone in person or online?

Q.   Hi guys n gals, I have been entertaining the thought of internet dating since becomming single...my friend suggests i wait a while and just meet someone naturally, they think internet dating is a bad thing to do, its mistly destined to fail...

A.   8 August 2011: You should do what feels right for you. Money is not everything. I have dated men who are filthy rich and have had as much fun with dating men with hardly any money at all. Money can't buy you love. I am now in love with a guy who is out of w... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has broken my trust....

Q.   Hi everyone. I am hurting at the moment. My boyfriend has broken my trust and has done the worst thing anyone could ever do to me. I though he was a good guy. I told him about my past sexual abuse by father and he told his family about it. I can ...

A.   9 November 2010: Hi I am so sorry for your past. Your boyfriend obviously cares about you and what happened to you and it can be a shock I guess for him to find such a horrific thing has happened to the person he cares about. His family would have no rea... (read in full...)

I Love Him, But Can He Forgive My Past?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two months now (not long huh?) and everything was fine last night. we were out with some friends having a meal and we had an arguement on the way home (i've been staying at his for the best part of a ...

A.   8 October 2010: Never ask a question if you can't handle the truth I say. It is out in the open now. You are still very young with your whole life ahead of you. I would say....if he cannot accept your past then there is no future. I remember an ex telling me... (read in full...)

How can one be so cruel?

Q.   I have been going over and over this situation if you can call it that in my head for 3 days now and my head is hurting as much as my heart/feelings. I was dating a 40yr old guy with 2 grown up sons for a month. He made a big point of waiting...

A.   9 May 2010: Thanks for the reality check....I don't know what came over me the last two weeks! I was a nutcase! I have never in my life met such an immature man! I wasted 2 weeks of my life mourning what was never there in the first place! nuts! I went out... (read in full...)

How can one be so cruel?

Q.   I have been going over and over this situation if you can call it that in my head for 3 days now and my head is hurting as much as my heart/feelings. I was dating a 40yr old guy with 2 grown up sons for a month. He made a big point of waiting...

A.   8 May 2010: you are sooo right posters! lol He just cancelled tonight - said his son was coming around and he had forgotten as has planned when we had 'split up' and could he come tomorrow night instead??? I told him 'It ends here! no more! do not con... (read in full...)

How can one be so cruel?

Q.   I have been going over and over this situation if you can call it that in my head for 3 days now and my head is hurting as much as my heart/feelings. I was dating a 40yr old guy with 2 grown up sons for a month. He made a big point of waiting...

A.   7 May 2010: Hi again- this will be the last time I will take up your time (thanks) The guy started talking to me on msn chat - tried to explain but I said I wanted to see him face to face. He said...he was used to dating 20 somethings since his div... (read in full...)

How can one be so cruel?

Q.   I have been going over and over this situation if you can call it that in my head for 3 days now and my head is hurting as much as my heart/feelings. I was dating a 40yr old guy with 2 grown up sons for a month. He made a big point of waiting...

A.   30 April 2010: Nearly there lol I can see the logic/light It is not my problem to live with-I have healthy sexual desires which I can fulfil/carry out and a likeminded guy will come along soon..... I don't need to understand his problem - I tried but got ki... (read in full...)

How can one be so cruel?

Q.   I have been going over and over this situation if you can call it that in my head for 3 days now and my head is hurting as much as my heart/feelings. I was dating a 40yr old guy with 2 grown up sons for a month. He made a big point of waiting...

A.   29 April 2010: Is revenge sweet? Should I carry on being a woman scorned hell have no fury etc.... there is something brewing inside of me - need to vent my anger somewhere but where? This anger is a huge waste of energy I need to channel it somewhere........life ... (read in full...)

How can one be so cruel?

Q.   I have been going over and over this situation if you can call it that in my head for 3 days now and my head is hurting as much as my heart/feelings. I was dating a 40yr old guy with 2 grown up sons for a month. He made a big point of waiting...

A.   29 April 2010: So it is day 4 - I'm still reeling from the shock??? I am a 40yr old woman with I am told a 30yr old womans body, have had children, and am in good shape and told I am stunning - why I am justifying all this I don't know! trying to laugh out loud. Y... (read in full...)

How can one be so cruel?

Q.   I have been going over and over this situation if you can call it that in my head for 3 days now and my head is hurting as much as my heart/feelings. I was dating a 40yr old guy with 2 grown up sons for a month. He made a big point of waiting...

A.   29 April 2010: I'm replying to my 0wn question here lol I knew/heard the warning bells etc...something not right here.... I mailed him that (I am a medical secretary and know all the clinical blarbs....) It was just so cruel the way he did it,,,I was willing ... (read in full...)

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