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writes:You know how they say opposites attract? Well I found my complete opposite. I'm having doubts if a relationship with him is possible. First I'm 25 so I feel like I have no time to waste on finding a guy Since I'm not getting any younger. I don't feel like I have any chemistry with him. The only reason why I'm with him is because I have no one else and he seems to feel likes there is chemistry.We have nothing in common. I like to travel and visit new places, I like animals, im open minded and willing to try new things while he is none of those things. I fear that a future with him will be boring. Even our conversations go nowhere o feel like. I ask questions about himself because I want to know more about him, I share info about my life and he doesn't. All he does is spit facts out to me. I know alot about stuff I don't care about.I feel like he doesn't have any interests or friends so he has nothing to say except factsShould i stick it out and see if anything might happen between us? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2011): First off, how can something work if there is nothing to begin with? You're not attracted to him and it sounds like you don't even like him! You said it best when you stated "The only reason why I'm with him is because I have no one else". I mean that pretty much says it all.
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reader, Carrie40  +, writes (9 August 2011):
I quote....First I'm 25 so I feel like I have no time to waste on finding a guy Since I'm not getting any younger.
He seems to feel like there is chemistry? and what do you feel?
25?? my goodness you are a mere slip of a girl! lol
There are plenty of pebbles on the beach and plenty of guys who share your interests.
Stop boring each other and break away and find someone who excites you and makes you happy. Get out there and live and enjoy your life.
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