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Am I allergic to this dandelion tea, I have been drinking?

Q.   Hi, just wondering if any of you have been through this and can help before i visit my G.P. About 2 months ago I drank dandelion tea everyday for a week because I was sick of my body retaining water. I got no result and so stopped, until 2 days ago ...

A.   27 July 2007: I agree with Basschick, i would really stop taking it! i remember reading somewhere when taken orally dandelion may have mild diuretic and laxative properties. Apparently dandelion can increase the production of stomach acid aswell so an upset ... (read in full...)

Just got back from Iraq but my girlfriend has gone very cold on me... is it a phase?

Q.   I guess I have a fairly complex question. I suppose thats due to the complex situation :P. Basically I've been in and out of a relationship with this girl for almost 3 years now. I just did a tour in iraq, came back, and we got togather again. But ...

A.   24 May 2007: This may or may not be just a phase. you really need to talk to your girlfriend and ask her how she feels. My boyfriend is away for long periods of time because of the army and when he returns there is usually some period of time that it takes to ... (read in full...)

how can I be less clingy?

Q.   Hi, I'm engaged and I have a a problem. I love my fiancee very much, and everything I do, is with good intention only. I have become over some time a bit more "clingy" to him,and I feel that I need to relax a bit about that...but I dont know how...

A.   9 May 2007: Hi Id say its perfectly normal to miss your fiancee when hes away. When hes having his time away though make sure you have fun doing your own thing. Its always good to have the things you enjoy doing together in a relationship but its also imp... (read in full...)

My boyfriend will only love me if I loose weight. Should I dump him?

Q.   My boyfriend told me that I need to lose weight. We just got back together after we broke up for a couple of months and he said that I looked like I gain weight. So I told him you don't love me the way I am? He said I'll love you if you lost some ...

A.   9 May 2007: What an awful thing to say! He'll only love you if lost weight?! thats crazy. If you love someone you love them for who they are no matter what size or shape they are, unconditionally. Id say get rid of this guy and get yourself a man who will ... (read in full...)

Can you be overfat, even if your not over weight ?

Q.   I was just wondering, can a person be over fat even though they may not be overweight on the scales? I say this because i am 5ft 4.5 and 8st (112 pounds?) but feel really fat. I cant face mirrors and have started buying bigger clothes to hide my ...

A.   27 April 2007: Thanks for taking the time + help, you're so right about an an inner confidence being much more attractive. Thats what i tend to admire in people most and i want to be that way to. I will try some excercise in attempt to tone up as well as trying to ... (read in full...)

I am a strong christian and I really want to wait till I'm married to have sex.

Q.   hey I am a strong christian and I really want to wait till I'm married to have sex. has anybody else done this? alot of people think that i am wasting my teenage life by living to this rule. im not have doubts about it, i really want to but id like ...

A.   27 April 2007: You are definatley not wasting your teenage life. Its a pretty commendable acheivement these days :o) My sister has done the same thing. She is 23 and a chritian and is about to get married this june. She seems to have coped pretty well, her and her ... (read in full...)

I can't understand why my husband wants us to 'swing'! This is destroying me! Help, any advice?

Q.   i cant get my head around why my husband would want us to swing,is it because he dont fancy me anymore or because he`s bored with me,pls help me as this is destroying me an im feeling a waster and a failer...

A.   26 April 2007: Im sure the reason isnt that he doesnt fancy you or that hes bored. People like to experiment with all kinds of things. He may just be curious. Talk to your husband about how you feel, he will be able to reassure you that he loves you and he ... (read in full...)

I'm missing him fancying me. Is this totally selfish and stupid?

Q.   I've been chatting to this guy for a couple of months, and found out that he fancied me a while back. I told him in the beginning that I wasn't interested in a relationship with him, but wanted to be friends with him. However, recently I've found th...

A.   26 April 2007: It doesnt sound like you have feelings for him. Its perfectly normal to enjoy the compliments and being fancied by someone else and when it stops you will miss the flattering feeling. Try looking at why you feel insecure and work on that and also ... (read in full...)

I need others in my life, someone I can depend on, how can I get this ?

Q.   i feel so easily discarded by friends and i dont know why I keep getting left. I try very hard to make the people in my life feel important but when i need someone there is no one i can count on. Ive been trying to strengthen ties with some friends ...

A.   20 April 2007: Try going new places to make new friends. Find new hobbies to assosciate with people who have similar interests. Cooking, going to the gym, dancing, art, whatever takes your fancy. I'm sure the offers of out of class invites to all kinds of events ... (read in full...)

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