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Should I meet my boyfriend's new female friend?

Q.   Okay my boyfriend has just went to college, I havent seen him in a week. I dont get to talk to him much because he plays football. Well, he meets this girl and talks to her and she says that she wants to meet me. He asks me and I dont know what to ...

A.   19 August 2008: If he's offering for you to meet her. You should. You really have to appreciate his honesty for telling you. That means he cares & doesn't want to hide anything from you. And also the fact that he sees her more than you is not really nobodys fault. ... (read in full...)

I really don't like who she is now, what do I do?

Q.   Hello, My GF and i started dating about a week ago, and we hung out like 4 times before becoming official, and it was so much fun, we laughed alot and i really liked who she was alot. But mysteriously she changed as soon as we started da...

A.   15 August 2008: I think its a really great idea to talk to her. However, its only been a week & there's already trouble. It sounds to me that she's insecure. Before you put everything into this relationship....You need to figure out what you're getting yourself ... (read in full...)

My husband went away for a week claiming that he needed some time alone. I have discovered all kinds of things on Facebook from his 18 yo 'friend.' Guess where he went away.

Q.   My husband and I have been having some marriage troubles...he went away for a week claiming that he needed some time alone. I have recently gone onto Facebook and he is on there too. I have discovered all these sexy, love, suggestive bumper ...

A.   15 August 2008: It is obvious what he's done. And he used what you guys are going thru to go & do what he's doing. I'm truly sorry that you are going thru this. This is not a coincidence but a fact that staring you in the face. you need to let it go. ... (read in full...)

Bi and confused!

Q.   I am a 16 year old guy who is Bi. I have a Girlfriend and i have recently started seeing this guy. I dont know what to do, i know i am cheating before anyone says it, and i know i am a horrible person. But what should i do. I am very confused...

A.   30 May 2008: i think you should not continue your relationship with either of them until u have sorted out what is it that you really want. Neither of them deserves to get hurt.... (read in full...)

Mother's Day blues...is it selfish to want to be by myself?

Q.   Hey guys. Its mothers day, and I have 2 very young kids. Is it selfish of me to just want to be by myself today? I mean, I made the kids and my husband a big breakfast, but now, I just want to be alone, play guitar all day. Is this "holiday" really ...

A.   11 May 2008: I don't think you are being selfish at all. Sometimes us moms need a little space for ourselves to BREATH. and u have 2 little ones so I know is exhausting. I truly think you deserve 1 day off to relax & do your things. don't feel bad. you deserve ... (read in full...)

He said he's finding it hard not to be tempted by other girls, so we broke up, what do I do now?

Q.   i broke up with my boyfriend od 6 months because he said hes finding it hard not to be tempted by other girls. i realy liked him and miss him lots, i care alot for him and it hurts that were not together. we' ve remained friend as we got along rea...

A.   20 April 2008: I think you need to appreciate that's he's being honest with you. It's better than him going behind your back & cheating on you. Just try to give him some space. Try to do your own thing for awhile. If its meant to be then it will be. Good Luck.... (read in full...)

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