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writes:Okay my boyfriend has just went to college, I havent seen him in a week. I dont get to talk to him much because he plays football. Well, he meets this girl and talks to her and she says that she wants to meet me. He asks me and I dont know what to say because I feel that because he sees her more than he sees me he talks to her more, and well I dont like that. So I really dont know if I want to meet her or not because I dont want to end up going off, ya know. I just need help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): So many of my friends in high school and college were guys, and I was very lucky that my boyfriends were never threatened by any of my male friends. I think it is perfectly healthy if you can trust your boyfriend to be friends with whomever he wants. Remember: He's still YOUR boyfriend!
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reader, butterflyAJA +, writes (19 August 2008):
 If he's offering for you to meet her. You should. You really have to appreciate his honesty for telling you. That means he cares & doesn't want to hide anything from you. And also the fact that he sees her more than you is not really nobodys fault. I really understand how you're feeling. But don't let your emotion get the best of you. Good luck honey.
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (19 August 2008):
 Why would you 'go off' at this girl just because your boyfriend speaks to her more than you?
He's in college now, and I'm assuming you are in highschool. He spends he whole day in a different place to you, so odds are there are going to be people that he speaks to more than you. It would be the same if he had a job somewhere - he'd probably speak to his manager more than you. It's nothing to get worked up over.
Don't feel threatened by this girl - she wants to meet you, so your boyfriend must have said some pretty flattering stuff about you.
Why pass up the opportunity to make a new friend?
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