He asked me for a date but its been 5 days since I've heard from him. Is it rude to break the date?
Q. Over email, a guy asked me to go out with him on day xyz. I replied, said yes that day sounds good. It has been five days and I haven't gotten his reply confirming the date and time with me. I know he can be busy or had an emergency but re...
A. 30 October 2013: Just the male perspective here... someone may have given him some "advice" that he should play it cool. It seems a bit odd, but sometimes guys don't want to come on too strong, or seem too serious.
If you decide to keep the date, I'm sure you will... (read in full...)
Does being cheated on make you more likely to cheat?
Q. What do you think? My girlfriend's last boyfriend cheated on her. Would that make her more likely? Since her experience with her ex, she is very jealous with me. That is understandable. I wonder if that makes it more likely for her to cheat. ...
A. 30 October 2013: Yes, my GF's behaviour is a concern. We have a lacking of mutual trust. (Well put.)
I struggle to find a way to build trust in the relationship. Maybe understanding my GF's behaviour will help.
I do have trouble understanding. I haven't had a ... (read in full...)
Does being cheated on make you more likely to cheat?
Q. What do you think? My girlfriend's last boyfriend cheated on her. Would that make her more likely? Since her experience with her ex, she is very jealous with me. That is understandable. I wonder if that makes it more likely for her to cheat. ...
A. 28 October 2013: Thanks for all the feedback. It sounds like the answer is "it depends".
I suppose it is hypothetical as there are bigger issues to tackle in this relationship.
There is a bit of a double standard since I know she would freak out if I met wit... (read in full...)
Do men prefer feminine and delicate women? Please can someone explain from a male perspective?
Q. Strange question, I know, but I'm curious to hear from a man's perspective what it is about femininity and feminine women they find attractive. I don't understand it - unsurprisingly, since I'm a het. female - and I was just curious if feminine ...
A. 28 October 2013: I won't say what I like in a woman—it doesn't matter. What does matter is that there is no "type" that guys like. Some guys couldn't stand a girl who's not "girly", while some would like a woman who's somewhat masculine. One guy can like several ... (read in full...)
Am I turning into an old lady by not wanting clubbing every weekend?
Q. I am in my early twenties, and I don't like hanging out with my friends at clubs. But this is all they do: as soon as weekend comes, it's a club time. I don't mind going there few times a year, but not that often. Then we stay up late, my next day ...
A. 28 October 2013: Yep, clubbing gets old... that doesn't mean you are.
If clubs don't do it for you, follow your passion. If you're not sure what that is, find it. Don't go someplace to meet guys... go someplace you want to be, because that's where you are most lik... (read in full...)
Is a friend's ex really off limits forever?
Q. I'll just go straight to the question. What is so wrong in dating my friend's ex-girlfriend. I mean they are no longer together for 2years now. We both want to go for it,i can bet on that but its just as if we should never cross. She has been my ...
A. 28 October 2013: Regardless of whether you friend says he's OK with it, chances are he is not. He might not even realize that it will bother him, but it probably will. If you decide to go out with his ex, the result may be straining or breaking your friendship. ... (read in full...)
Text, secrets, maybe lies?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year and we've been living together for six months. We came together very passionately and have spent our time together whenever possible, almost to the exclusion of other friends. I encouraged her t...
A. 3 September 2013: So far things seem to be friendship only, although one possibly has crossed into an emotional affair, but not physical. I'm OK with male friends but not an "emotional affair" and definitely not lies. That's my biggest question: How to handle li... (read in full...)
Text, secrets, maybe lies?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year and we've been living together for six months. We came together very passionately and have spent our time together whenever possible, almost to the exclusion of other friends. I encouraged her t...
A. 2 September 2013: She has strong fear of abandonment stemming from childhood. I think I'm the first boyfriend she's had who has been able to express love and support. I understand that I don't fit the pattern or her family background, so it is hard for her to accept ... (read in full...)
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