My long-distance girlfriend has a problem with my use of porn!
Q. Dear Cupid my long-distance girlfriend of 18 months has a serious issue with my use of porn. I only use it when I am away as a visual aid. When i'm in town we have great sex daily and i am happy with her body. I have a high sex drive and i wi...
A. 7 February 2007: From my point of view, porn can actually be empowering to the women who are taking part... But I'm not answering your question to debate about it, there are both positive and negatives to the porn industry (as indeed there are to all industries!)
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Does the guy at work like me more than friends for not wanting to hug me... yet?
Q. Thanks in advance for help with my question. I was in the hospital for a few days but am on the mend now. I returned to work and had quite a few people come up and give me a hug and say they were glad that I was feeling better.There is a man that I ...
A. 7 February 2007: I think that the best thing to do is ask him!
If he did mean something by this remark, he's probably hoping that you'll ask him about it, and if he didn't, at least you'll feel better for knowing. But really I think it's most likely that he did -... (read in full...)
I don't want to like him because I know I deserve better!!
Q. So, here's the situation.. awhile ago I met this guy named alex .We started talking more and I could tell I was starting to like him but just a little because, I had a boyfriend and he also had a girlfriend and was always talking about how special ...
A. 7 February 2007: Having been out with someone who did drugs, I can tell you that you do deserve better in a relationship. Even if they do stop for you, it will re-surface and if, in the future, you do want to leave him, you shouldn't have to worry about whether it ... (read in full...)
Shall I send sexy pics to my b/f for valentines day?
Q. hey everyone for valentine's day i was wondering if i should send my b/f a pic of me with something sexy on..like a school girl outfit or something like that vj vanessa minillo did...i know i wont look as hot as these girls in magazines do but...
A. 7 February 2007: If you want to do it, are comfortable with it, and you trust him, there is no reason not to. If you're worried about not looking as good as the girls in magazines, don't be - he's chosen to be with you, so I'm sure a pic of you will be much more ... (read in full...)
I ended it...because he flirts with others a lot and I find this hard to trust him. Did I do the right thing?
Q. I've been with a guy a bit older than me (15 years) for the past four months. He's the doorman at a social club where I work on the bar. I've really fallen in love with him, but he's a terrible flirt and I've found this hard to cope with. He also ...
A. 7 February 2007: Well, he's gotten in touch now. Says he doesn't want to lose me. I'm pretty confused. IF (and that is just an if!) I do try it again with him, well it'll be on my terms this time!
I also want to point out that we started off as really good mat... (read in full...)
I like older guys! Do I have a 'daddy complex?"
Q. Hi, this is probably going to sound ridiculous but here goes. I’m currently dating a guy who is 8 years older than me (I’m 19). I know it’s a huge difference but that’s not necessarily what my question is about because our relationship is working ...
A. 5 February 2007: My last boyfriend was 15 years older than me, and I'm 19 too... Older men can be more supportive, just as younger men can be more fun, but there is no way of stereotyping anything. If you have a good relationship, that's all that counts... (read in full...)
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