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My boyfriend and I are having difficulty with intercourse

Q.   So this might be a little graphic, so I apologise in advance. This is kind of awkward for me, so please be patient… So, my boyfriend and I tried to have intercourse the other day, but it was very unsuccessful. We can’t seem to fit him into me, and ...

A.   14 December 2022: The other answers were spot on. A guy can’t actually screw if he doesn’t have a hard-on. I not sure what else you do so I suggest that the next time you try to screw if he can’t penetrate have him roll over on his back, and give him a blowjob. This ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend rarely will perform oral sex and when he does he's terrible at it

Q.   Hey everyone! Can we talk oral for a hot minute? I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, we’re very much in love and have a very healthy sex life. However I can count the times he’s gone down on me on my hands, and each time is because ...

A.   13 December 2022: My take on this is communication it sounds like he is a just go through the motion of it. You said you suck on him and give him blowjobs. Does he like getting that done to him? One answer was to masturbate and let him watch use your finger like you ... (read in full...)

Why does my wife lie about her sexual past? I overheard a convo she had with a friend. Should I tell her?

Q.   I have been married for many years my wife had a couple of sex partners before we met. She always said that when she was with the them that they didn't have a lot of sex which would not have bothered me if she did. My problem came up as we talked ...

A.   2 May 2017: I do want to thank al who took time to make a comment. I do appreciate them and understand the answers. I want to clarify a couple of things. A couple of people thought I was sneaking around when I overheard her I started into the room right when ... (read in full...)

I compared my husband's penis to my ex's and my husband can't get over it

Q.   I know the backlash I'm in for... My husband and I have been together over 10 years. Early on, I compared his penis to my exes unfavorably. I don't remember, but it's seared into his memory; I did it multiple times. He tells me that I was passiona...

A.   29 April 2017: My only answer to this is what you did was very mean. Throwing it in face is hard to deal with. I know I've sensitive to this issue but due to the other way. My wife always said she couldn't remember whether her first was bigger than me or not. I ... (read in full...)

My wife lacks interest in certain sex acts, I like. How do I convince her to keep trying?

Q.   My questions are simple, I have been married for quite a while we always have had a good sex life. I know that as you get somewhat older it will slowdown. We always tried different things had a good mix 3 to 4 times a week when younger, now we will ...

A.   6 February 2010: Thanks for the answers I was hoping for a few more suggestions but I know I have to be patient. I don't think she is going through menopause because this has been going on for a while.... (read in full...)

Going to sleep with a man I work with. How can I get over my flaws and be more confident in bed?

Q.   I met this man a year ago. We work together. We find each other really attractive and have finally decided to sleep together (once). There are no long term plans, we just want to have fun together. What I want to know is how can I make sure I ...

A.   31 January 2010: You need to let yourself go. If a guy is interested in you with clothes on he will also be very interested without them on, probably very interested. Do not be afraid to show yourself that is a good confidence builder and don't be afraid to try ... (read in full...)

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