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How equal should things be? I give her oral, but she just gives me excuses for why not, when I seek same from her.

Q.   Hi, I'm wondering whether I should expect oral sex for giving oral sex. Me and my girlfriend don't have sex often, but my sex drive is a lot more than hers, so she uses her hands to satisfy me. I've told her I really enjoy oral sex and she gave...

A.   20 February 2012: Please aunts! He didn't say anything about cumming in her mouth or making her swallow. He just wants oral. When she says it tastes bitter, does she mean your natural lubricant? That's strange because I have never heard it before. Girls who descri... (read in full...)

Too shy to ask my boyfriend to kiss me! Help!

Q.   Hi I'm 13 and i am shy around my bf and i really want him to kiss me any advice???...

A.   4 February 2012: I bet he wants to kiss you too. When I was about 13, I wanted to kiss my first girlfriend for the first time. But I was not comfortable with making my move. -what if she pushes me back? -what if she slaps me? -what if she tells her parents? -w... (read in full...)

Does he want to see me with another woman for my pleasure or his?

Q.   Hello everyone , i would like to have your opinion about a relationship-sex issue that is troubling me for some time .Iam a woman 36 yrs,I was married 7 years and had 2 small chidren when i met my current fiancee, who is 36 yrs old also .I had a ...

A.   3 February 2012: Thank you for your follow up camomile. It seems that I made a wrong assumption. When I read your first post, I assumed that you trust him, since you said very nice things about him and you also said that you find his weakness for other women ... (read in full...)

I love him so much but husband never wants sex!

Q.   I am a married woman and my husband never seems to want sex i feel like its me maybe he doesnt fancy me anymore.i mean i love him so much and want to have sex more and i have tried talking to him and he just says things will be different and then it ...

A.   2 February 2012: I used to have the same problem with my wife. My sex drive was high but I didn't want my wife to satisfy me. I masturbated when she was away from home. She was apparently worried about me not wanting sex. She repeatedly told me that she loved me... (read in full...)

Does he want to see me with another woman for my pleasure or his?

Q.   Hello everyone , i would like to have your opinion about a relationship-sex issue that is troubling me for some time .Iam a woman 36 yrs,I was married 7 years and had 2 small chidren when i met my current fiancee, who is 36 yrs old also .I had a ...

A.   1 February 2012: So, you love him, he loves you, you trust each other, but this girl/girl thing is making you confused/uncomfortable. Right? You know, when it comes to sex, girls would like to stick with what they are used to. Guys, on the other hand, like to ... (read in full...)

My wife wants me to be more of an alpha!

Q.   I'm not a tough guy type. I always tried to be nice and gentle. When we have sex, I always ask my wife if she is comfortable, or if there is anything she wants, during sex. She used to love me like this, but not anymore! She says I care too ...

A.   1 February 2012: Just to make things clearer: - I don't know what "alpha" means. I didn't choose that title. - I understand that younger women like lover to be nice and caring. My wife used to be the same. But now we are in our mid 30's and are married for ... (read in full...)

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