How do I deal with the reality of this change?
Q. What do you do when you realize that your ex doesn't like you as a person? In most of my relationships, the guys said they liked me, and even wanted to spend a lot of time around me. But, when it came to romance, after the first few months, they...
A. 9 May 2010: It sounds like there's a pattern the point in which your relationships tend to sour, and I would suggest doing some soul searching to figure out what's going on. It sounds like you can be a very intense person in a relationship, and you may be ... (read in full...)
How do I get this depressed feeling out of my chest?
Q. Hello I'm soo depressed and I feel is killing me inside. Sometimes I wake up feeling ok and others days feeling down and I throw up and I dnt even eat. How can I make or what do I do so I won't think negative. When I think negative is when I get ...
A. 9 May 2010: Talk to a medical doctor. They can rule out medical reasons for your symptoms. Some illnesses mimic mental health disorders. Then speak to a psychiatrist, therapist, pastor, trained professional, etc. Often it's a good idea to see a psychiatrist and ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but she is totally overbearing
Q. Hey guys, I never post on these types of sites, but I have been searching the web for answers, because I am just torn and confused as to what to do: I am a 25 year old male law student, and have been with my girlfriend for 3 1/2 years. I love h...
A. 9 May 2010: It sounds like your girlfriend needs a big dose of assertiveness training. You might need some too, as it sounds like you are often the passive to her aggressive. I would seriously consider taking at least an assertiveness workshop together. It ... (read in full...)
I am really, really Jealous and grossed out about my wife's past sex life
Q. I have been with my wife for 5years, we have been married for 4 years. I love her with all my heart. I love her so much that I believe if we had met at any time in my life no matter what I was doing or what I had going on at the time, I would have ...
A. 9 May 2010: 1.) How about instead of thinking of her as a whore you look at the past her as a confused teenage child who made poor decisions that she obviously was not ready to make? What would possess a girl to feel that this was the only way to make money? ... (read in full...)
Drugs and cheating tore us apart but I still love him
Q. Hello, My ex and I fell in love at first sight - or at least in lust! After two weeks we started going out with each other and it was wonderful. I worked seasonly and had to go back to tour guiding in Spring. He was upset about this but wee said we ...
A. 9 May 2010: You have invested a lot of time, energy, money, emotion and thought into this relationship. Understandably, that makes it difficult to let go. That's exactly what you need to do though. You are putting all kinds of valuable investment into a rapidly ... (read in full...)
I don't mind helping someone get on their feet, but I don't want to be taken for a fool.
Q. I have started seeing a man 22 and i'm 43. It started well but he asks me for five or ten dollars here or there and i pay for our dates since i have a full time job and his is part time. He is looking for a full time job also to get a car and we ...
A. 9 May 2010: What are you getting out of this relationship exactly? It sounds like a whole lot of nothing, which isn't a big surprise since this kid is twenty-two years old. Think back to when you were twenty-two. Seriously. End it.... (read in full...)
I've fallen for him, but I don't know just how fond of me he is
Q. please advise me here. i have totally fallen for my best friend i know hes fond of me but dont know how much. on occasions i have vaguely made jokey suggestions and he says he has lots of affection for me in a sisterly way. i was crushed then lat...
A. 9 May 2010: The word "sisterly" is your answer. He adores you--in a platonic way. He obviously values your friendship very much and he's trying to let you down gently. It sucks, it hurts, but it's best to face it and find someone who definitely does not see you ... (read in full...)
She can't get past the idea of smoking weed
Q. So my girlfriend and I have been going out for 6 months and we have a blast together. I've never been in a relationship so strong before. Recently, we've been fighting about one subject and one subject only: my smoking habits. It's not that I smoke ...
A. 9 May 2010: You wrote: She always says "it's because I don't like it", "I've seen it change people" or "My ex-boyfriend chose weed over me before" and refuses to explain any further. She gave you three pretty solid explanations, and there really isn't muc... (read in full...)
Do I leave my wife and child for this affair?
Q. Should I stay with my wife and child or not? I cheated on my wife with a woman from work. The affair has been going on for about 1 month. The affair would have continued but I recently moved across the country for work. Our marriage was in ...
A. 9 May 2010: 1.) No, you cut ties with the affair. No good can come of this. End it.
2.) Get into marriage counseling. You might not hit it off with the first therapist you try. Find someone that you are both comfortable with and go in with a positive attitude... (read in full...)
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