How do I ask her out?
Q. Hi all! There is a girl that lives near me, she’s a hairdresser and my dad is friends with her dad. As she’s local and I know her dad and brother abit, I added her on Facebook. The thing is, I’ve fancied her for a while but don’t know her enough top ...
A. 26 March 2012: Thanks, would it look strange if I messaged her on Facebook with me not knowing her?? I was thinking about saying something random to see if she replies first, then send one casually asking her out. What would you put in the message?
And am I rig... (read in full...)
How do I ask her out?
Q. Hi all! There is a girl that lives near me, she’s a hairdresser and my dad is friends with her dad. As she’s local and I know her dad and brother abit, I added her on Facebook. The thing is, I’ve fancied her for a while but don’t know her enough top ...
A. 26 March 2012: Do you think it'd seem weired/ strange if I sent her a message on Facebook if we hardly even know eachother?? What would you put in the message??... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend cheated on me and I now I'm not sure if I can forgive her.
Q. I was in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost two years. Recently, she suggested that we break up because due to reasons that I would prefer not to disclose. However, I still believed that she was the only person in the whole world for me, ...
A. 25 July 2011: Sounds tough, and I know how it feels to like someone so much but they dont put the same into it. You need to be strong and learn from this as you are still young. It sounds like you have more feelings for her than she does for you and what she has ... (read in full...)
Guy cant seem to make up his mind - me or his GF. Whats going on here?
Q. This is long i know so if you're not going to read it please don't answer. I need help. Me and a guy friend since school (we're both 24 now) used to have a causal thing, when we were both single. We'd meet up and sometimes sleep together. I stup...
A. 25 July 2011: He sounds like he wants it all but it doesnt work like that. He has cheated on his girlfriend (that I assume he has told he loves), this means he's a cheat whichever way you look at it i.e. not dependable. You could tell him to decide who he wants ... (read in full...)
He is still friends with the girl he cheated on me with!
Q. I am seeing someone who has slept with a girl he was sharing a house with when we were together but going through a bad stint. He didn't tell me I found out months later through someone else. She hates me but he has remained friends with her and ...
A. 25 July 2011: I think it is very reasonable for you to tell him how awkward it makes you feel and that to be fair on you, he should decide where his priority is as your not happy the way it is/ the way he goes back to her after his past events with her. Do what ... (read in full...)
Pressure over lending money to my fiance, please help!
Q. Hi, I need advice. Basically I am engaged (have been for a year now). I am working part time at my dad’s shop and generally trying to make money for the future. My girlfriend has been unemployed for about 2 years, she has tried her best to get a job ...
A. 25 July 2011: Thank you very much for that k_c100, She has just called me saying that her grandad will lend her most of the money and now she just needs to lend £600 off me, her grandad is really making the situation worse by doing this and making me look tight. ... (read in full...)
How do I act around him at work?
Q. What does he mean by that? I really like him.;)..x? So I've finally given the guy at work my number, he rang me and we talked on the phone for over an hour. He said he likes me but he didn't think I'd give him my number, he wasn't expecting...
A. 25 July 2011: Just be laid back, the best thing, and you cant beat talking.... (read in full...)
Guys: Why might I seem unapproachable? What can I do to change this?
Q. hi there. this question is aimed at guys specifically but ladies feel free to answer too. I am a 21 year old female and i am a university student. i have been struggling with trying to get dates. there are plenty of guys at univerity and i ...
A. 25 July 2011: Hi! From going out over the years I would say the most important thing to do (although it’s hard when you want top meet someone) is, try to put it to the back of your mind. People of the opposite sex can pick up on when people want to meet someone ... (read in full...)
Looking for no strings attached sex with a friend.
Q. I have a question for everyone out there. i have a friend who i have known for about 5yrs she is quite attractive but i've never seen her as more than just a friend, until recently. the thing is i have never had sex or fooled around with a girl ...
A. 27 April 2010: You would be best waiting until you meet someone you like, it sounds like you are lusting sex (which is normal) but casual sex isnt ideal, I guess it's down to you as a person. On the other hand if you want to try things out/ start seeing her, I'd ... (read in full...)
Is their brother-sister relationship abnormal?
Q. Brother- Sister situation My boyfriend (27 years old)and his sister (24 years) have a relation that makes me very uncomfortable because- 1. They don't mind walking in to each other when one of them is actually using the bathroom like in the tub...
A. 27 April 2010: Yes that is strange (in my opinion). You could drop in to a conversation something like 'why dont we try setting your sister up with one of my friends', just to see what his reaction is, if your a good judge of reactions and can sense when someone ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for a friend, but she has a boyfriend...help!
Q. I have recently become friends with a girl that I am starting to have stronger feelings for. There are numerous problems with this, She has a boyfriend. I am also friends with her boyfriend. I don’t think she feels the same way. Another p...
A. 4 January 2008: I've been in a possition where I've got close with a friend (that was seeing someone) and trust me, from the results of it, it wasnt worth it, I lost her as a friend and it messed both of our heads up for a few months. Your best taking a step back ... (read in full...)
What are your opinions on lots of pubic hair?
Q. Same person you nice people out there helped me with performance anxiety questions. and now are sex life is crazy outstanding, passionate, he does it all for me and then some, as i do the same for him its only been three months and i truly found my ...
A. 4 January 2008: Ideal is trimmed up I think.... (read in full...)
I'm really not sure if he likes me or not! Advice?
Q. I'm really not sure if he likes me or not! When I was in R.E this girl lets call her "EN" said in class "Oh I know (who I fancy) likes its SJ (call her that)" And that really brought me down becuase he talks to her alot, but then I thought a few ...
A. 4 January 2008: I'd ask him to go for a walk or something where it's just the 2 of you and tell him that you like him and see what he says. If he likes you then tell him your worries about this other girl getting in the way, and if he doesnt feel the same as you, ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for a guy but he is a family friend so I'm afraid it might be awkward if he turns me down, what do you think, is it worth trying anyway?
Q. I am 13 years old, and I have feelings for a boy of a similar age (6 months difference). He's a family friend, so I have to be careful because things could get a bit awkward (especially if he doesn't like me in that way), so my question is: What ...
A. 4 January 2008: Your still very young, just hang out with him more if you like him and see how things go as friends.... (read in full...)
Single, and not enjoying it. How can I crave sex less?
Q. How can I crave Sex less?? I haven't had Sex in nearly 8 months and I feel like everyone except me (former girlfriend included) is having it. I'm single, and not enjoying it. Has anybody else felt this way? What can I do?...
A. 4 January 2008: The more you think about it, the less chance you will meet someone. You need to alter your frame of mind and chill out, keep going out with friends, and keep your eyes out. Also, ask friends and family members if they know of any single girls that ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to see things my way?
Q. I've been in a relationship for about 3 years now, but it's been off and on since the beginning. As of now, I haven't seen him since before the holidays. Last year, he avoided me for a long time because he hadn't gotten me a Christmas gift, and I'm ...
A. 4 January 2008: Well it sounds to me from a guys point that he wants the best of both worlds- at times he enjoys being with you and in the relationship, then other times he wants space like how people are when they are single. I think you need to be strong, arrange ... (read in full...)
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