Exclusive or not....what is acceptable?
Q. I want to know if I am being unrealistic or not. How long should you wait before being exclusive with someone? I am 47 years old and I met a man on POF who is soon to be 49 back in March. We are both quite attractive and we have been dating for 3 ...
A. 12 June 2013: Thanks for your honesty. I wish I had done the same as you but obviously it is now too late. We've been intimate many times and it really hurts for me to see him on line searching for other women. He knows how I feel about him and that it hurts me ... (read in full...)
Exclusive or not....what is acceptable?
Q. I want to know if I am being unrealistic or not. How long should you wait before being exclusive with someone? I am 47 years old and I met a man on POF who is soon to be 49 back in March. We are both quite attractive and we have been dating for 3 ...
A. 11 June 2013: Good point... I totally agree that people can and should date more than one person at a time in the beginning. Heck I've done it myself although I wouldn't let it go on for too long. I guess I'm just a sucker for thinking when someone calls me "hun" ... (read in full...)
Exclusive or not....what is acceptable?
Q. I want to know if I am being unrealistic or not. How long should you wait before being exclusive with someone? I am 47 years old and I met a man on POF who is soon to be 49 back in March. We are both quite attractive and we have been dating for 3 ...
A. 10 June 2013: Thanks Aunty Em! It's so cool to see people from around the world answering my question. This guy actually just got back from a trip to the UK and has posted some of his pictures from his trip on his new POF profile. Argghhhh... :-( And I agree ... (read in full...)
Exclusive or not....what is acceptable?
Q. I want to know if I am being unrealistic or not. How long should you wait before being exclusive with someone? I am 47 years old and I met a man on POF who is soon to be 49 back in March. We are both quite attractive and we have been dating for 3 ...
A. 10 June 2013: Thank you everyone so much for your answers. I was stunned last week when I saw his profile on POF and really hurt. The past 3 weeks we have been becoming closer. We speak by text daily, he calls me "hun" and says good morning and goodnight xo... (read in full...)
I love him to no end, I would do or give anything for him, I can't move on but it's tearing me apart!
Q. 1 year and 9 months ago me and my boyfriend broke up and he refused to speak to me afterward even though he said we could still be friends. although we never spoke i could never get over him and a year and 2 months after we broke up he started ...
A. 30 January 2013: Although I am a little older than you... the same thing just happened to me. It doesn't matter if you are 17 or in your 40s... we all hurt and feel the pain of a broken heart just the same. I got the email after New Year's from a man I dated last ... (read in full...)
Got dumped by BBM and then he deleted me as a contact as soon as I read it
Q. If you are familiar with BBM you will know that someone knows when their message has been delivered and then eventually read. Today I got dumped by BBM and then as soon as he saw that I had read the message, he deleted me! What a coward!! Duh... I ...
A. 30 January 2013: Thank you all so much for your answers. I finally got my kiddo to bed so I could sit down and read them all. FYI I have not responded to the "dumper" and I already feel so much better. I took someone's advice and I wrote the nastiest email I could ... (read in full...)
New relationship - Am I being silly or what?
Q. Good afternoon all, I will give you a little background regarding my situation. I'm in my 40s and met a wonderful man a couple of years younger back in November while walking my dog. We actually live on the same street and we have been dating ...
A. 4 March 2012: Well... I asked him to be honest with me and he was. It's over. He told me he has too much going on. In the beginning he said he was infatuated with me but he just doesn't see me in his future! Wow... you can imagine how that made me feel. I guess I ... (read in full...)
New relationship - Am I being silly or what?
Q. Good afternoon all, I will give you a little background regarding my situation. I'm in my 40s and met a wonderful man a couple of years younger back in November while walking my dog. We actually live on the same street and we have been dating ...
A. 22 February 2012: Thank you all so much for replying. I'm not a stupid girl and I know all the answers. It's funny how people (especially women) need to seek out the opinion of others just to find out something they already know. Of course none of you can tell me ... (read in full...)
Taking it slow... from a guys point of view please!
Q. I'm in my mid 40s and I met an amazing man of the same age. We actually went to public school together but recently connected through facebook. We've had three fantastic dates over a period of 2 months and are clearly attracted to one another. We've ...
A. 24 August 2011: Why is it that a woman's advice is to wait for him to make contact but a man says to go ahead and contact him to let him know I'm thinking about him?! Does it really matter in this day and age? As a woman I want to wait for him to contact me so that ... (read in full...)
Taking it slow... from a guys point of view please!
Q. I'm in my mid 40s and I met an amazing man of the same age. We actually went to public school together but recently connected through facebook. We've had three fantastic dates over a period of 2 months and are clearly attracted to one another. We've ...
A. 23 August 2011: Thanks to all three of you for your supportive answers. You've made me feel much better. Although I still have an awful feeling in the pit of my stomach... why? My relationship recently ended recently after 9 years together. Maybe it's a little ... (read in full...)
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