I broke up with my ex to be with my current girlfriend, but it's the ex I really want!
Q. I've been dating this girl for almost 5 years now and I can say that she is fun to be with. We had our share of ups and downs for the past few years. But I keep on thinking about my ex-girlfriend, whom I've been with for 2 years before my current ...
A. 18 November 2005: Don't keep stringing your current girlfriend along. You say you don't want to hurt her but the longer you keep this up the more it will hurt. There's no avoiding hurting her though. No matter what you do it's going to hurt her. She'll cry and she'll ... (read in full...)
The distance between us is worse when my boyfriend gets depressed. How do I help?
Q. I'm currently in love with a Marine who has many challenges in his life. He is still a reservist so we don't see each other much. He does devote every Sunday to see me. However, he is going through a lot of emotional challenges with his family and ...
A. 12 November 2005: I'm sorry you have to go through this. There's really not too much you can do. Suggesting he seeks help will probably only make him mad at you because that's a decision he needs to come on his own. He's got to want to seek the help. I bet you're ... (read in full...)
In the 15 months I've been with him, I've been overtaken by sport and school in importance!
Q. I need help. I've been with my boyfriend for 15 months. He is the love of my life. I would do anything and everything for him. I actually want to marry him. In the beginning of our relationship, he was absolutely amazing. But lately, he doesn't seem ...
A. 12 November 2005: Here's your chance to learn something. You will encounter this for the rest of your life, even up into your 40's, if you're not married yet. At the begining of a relationship the men will adore you. You're his new toy. He wants to be with you a lot ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to break up, but suddenly he doesn't love me, either...
Q. When I step outside myself, the answers to my confusions seem so simple but my heart wants to complicate it. I've been dating this guy, let's call him Jordan, for almost 8mths now. He's 36, I'm 27. I've known him a year and a half. I met him thro...
A. 11 November 2005: I already know you guys are right, I am his rebound. And that's what I was afraid of from the begining, I knew that's why he was coming on so strong and I asked him so many times if I would pay the price for his last relationship. I know I should ... (read in full...)
First he broke up with me, then he was friendly. I don't know what to do anymore...
Q. I met this guy when I was in my first year of university (I was 18 and he was 20). We hit it off right away and spent the entire year madly falling in love with each other. That summer I broke with him b/c I was having personal problems even though ...
A. 11 November 2005: If I have learned one thing from all my failed relationships-- and we've all had failed relationships-- it's that when a man tells you he doesn't love you and doesn't want to be with you, it's not code for anything. Men don't do that, women do. Men ... (read in full...)
I just can't believe that my wonderful girlfriend was a stripper all those years ago. Sometimes it bothers me...
Q. I love my girlfriend totally. We've been dating for 2 years and talk marriage often. She's 35 and I'm 37, so we're not kids. We are both divorced. She used to be a stripper when she was 19-22. She supported her slacker ex and paid her way through ...
A. 11 November 2005: I can see how this would bother you. Sometimes there are deal breakers in relationships, this may be one of them for you. I can say "if you love her this won't matter" until I'm blue in the face, but you already know that, don't you? It doesn't ... (read in full...)
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