URGENT adivce: is this too weird or should I just leave it?
Q. So the story, I need your honest opinion- I know its long, but you need to understand the context if it all. We're in our mid 20s and have been studying together for the last year and a half. We're not friends but we're friendly- we have done gro...
A. 23 September 2013: Thanks for your response
I dont know if giving the mobile number makes the ordeal less painful- its certainly more of a bold move, which is not exactly something I'm comfortable with.. but it gives him another option and a definite indicator that... (read in full...)
URGENT adivce: is this too weird or should I just leave it?
Q. So the story, I need your honest opinion- I know its long, but you need to understand the context if it all. We're in our mid 20s and have been studying together for the last year and a half. We're not friends but we're friendly- we have done gro...
A. 23 September 2013: Sorry the anonymous post was me (original poster):
But I feel like because he isn't a big fb user it would be better to give him another option to contact me on?
I don't know- it's a scary thing to give the number.. I feel like I'm caught in be... (read in full...)
URGENT adivce: is this too weird or should I just leave it?
Q. So the story, I need your honest opinion- I know its long, but you need to understand the context if it all. We're in our mid 20s and have been studying together for the last year and a half. We're not friends but we're friendly- we have done gro...
A. 22 September 2013: Thanks Chigirl and Aunty Babbit....
I know that he won't read my message for a while because he doesn't go on facebook...
should I give him my mobile number? I don't know if I'm brave enough to do so...... (read in full...)
Last chance to make a move and I'm shy?
Q. We have two more days of university and I don't know what to do. I'm quite shy, and I can't even guarantee that we'll have a chance to talk to each other. We're both in our mid-20s and have been studying together for the last year and a half. We're ...
A. 22 September 2013: Thanks for taking the time to reply.
I actually managed to get an opportunity to talk to him on our last day, and it was a really nice conversation although while I was working up the courage to mention the birthday drink, we were joined by a fri... (read in full...)
Last chance and too shy to make a move!
Q. We have two more days of university and I don't know what to do. I'm quite shy, and I can't even guarantee that we'll have a chance to talk to each other. We're both in our mid-20s and have been studying together for the last year and a half. We're ...
A. 22 September 2013: How do I do this?
We're now done with uni, and the only means I have of contacting him is via facebook
I had a nice conversation with him on our last day, but were interrupted by a friend coming to join us so I never got to mention the drin... (read in full...)
URGENT adivce: is this too weird or should I just leave it?
Q. So the story, I need your honest opinion- I know its long, but you need to understand the context if it all. We're in our mid 20s and have been studying together for the last year and a half. We're not friends but we're friendly- we have done gro...
A. 21 September 2013: Thanks everyone for your answers...
What exactly do I write to him? (I'm terrified about being direct, but I want him to get the hint)... (read in full...)
I'm shy but I want to ask him out. How do I get the courage? And it's Two days before this semester finishes. What can I do?
Q. We have two days left at university, and I'm too shy to ask him out.. I don't know whether we will have a chance to talk, and even limited opportunity to talk one on one.. We're not friends, but we're on friendly terms.. Please give ...
A. 19 September 2013: Last days before the end of university. So tomorrow is the last actual day... Based on the contact I had with him today, I know there is going to be disappointment... we said hello in passing, and that was all... Because of the lack of... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time? She's a bit younger so she might be shy or I'm getting the wrong end of the stick.
Q. Heya if you could please advise.. I met a girl I like who works next door to me, I've liked her for a while but I'm naff at asking girls out, and I like to make sure shes interested.anyway about 2 weeks ago I asked if she wanted to go for a drink ...
A. 7 June 2013: Don't get her flowers,
but it sounds like she is interested- just shy. She is waiting for you to set it all up, so make it happen!... (read in full...)
I don't want to appear desperate but I want him to know that I was being serious
Q. There's this guy who is in my course at university. I see him about once a week, but it's hard to say whether he likes me or not.. we're not friends, but have done some group work together and sometimes talk before class... we've been doing a ...
A. 31 May 2013: I know he isn't the only guy- but I don't find guys that I'm interested in very often.
Would he think that I asked him out when I wrote "will have to take you out for a drink?" Was it obvious enough?
Baring in mind that I am shy, what can I ... (read in full...)
I don't want to appear desperate but I want him to know that I was being serious
Q. There's this guy who is in my course at university. I see him about once a week, but it's hard to say whether he likes me or not.. we're not friends, but have done some group work together and sometimes talk before class... we've been doing a ...
A. 28 May 2013: I suppose I can't really tell whether he likes me or not, at the moment, because I haven't seen him since before I sent the message... from me sending the message where I suggested that "I will have to take you for a belated birthday drink"- would ... (read in full...)
I don't want to appear desperate but I want him to know that I was being serious
Q. There's this guy who is in my course at university. I see him about once a week, but it's hard to say whether he likes me or not.. we're not friends, but have done some group work together and sometimes talk before class... we've been doing a ...
A. 27 May 2013: What happens if he isn't the type of guy who will make a move? I know there's a possibility that he isn't interested in me, but he is also generally a reserved guy and keeps to himself, although he is friendly when approached... I know I'm shy... (read in full...)
Guys 20 and up--what's your take on this guys action and what should I do next?
Q. So we are both in our mid-20s and studying the same course at university. We're not friends, but we're friendly- have done a few group assignments together and sometimes talk to each other before class. I honestly have no idea how he feels about me- ...
A. 24 May 2013: Thanks for those suggestions- it's just a waiting game now, until we go back to university but it's eating me up- wondering whether I will get a chance to talk to him, and how I can make him see that I was being genuine in asking him out, but all ... (read in full...)
Online dating: yay or nay?
Q. I signed up for an online dating site and received a few messages already. Then I realized I was too shy to even reply back to a simple message! Ugh! I thought I would give it a try but I'm still a little on the fence on whether it's a good ide...
A. 21 May 2013: I signed up for online dating a few years ago and had exactly the same fears as you. I think it doesn't hurt to give things ago- first step is to reply to a message.. it doesn't mean that you'll have to meet up with them. Advice is only me... (read in full...)
Guys 20 and up--what's your take on this guys action and what should I do next?
Q. So we are both in our mid-20s and studying the same course at university. We're not friends, but we're friendly- have done a few group assignments together and sometimes talk to each other before class. I honestly have no idea how he feels about me- ...
A. 20 May 2013: Thanks for the advice so far... I don't know how to bring up the drink without seeming desperate and, all the while, still keeping it casual in case he isn't interested in me... Also I need a way to do it so I won't chicken out... How should I... (read in full...)
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