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February 2012:

My first name is Jennifer and I'm 38 yrs old in San Diego, CA. I have two sons (16 and 10) and my boyfriend of almost two years that I adore 3

I don't really have any qualifications to give advice, but I've had my share of experiences and I like to answer on questions I feel I have some real advice for. Like, if this was my buddy, what would I tell him/her??

He has forbidden me to kiss him. He will not speak to me. What should I do?

Q.   I'm a female 21 year old medical student.. i love my lecturer who is a doctor and married also.. i have some different feelings for him. I want to see him all the time..i want to spend a lot of time with him. once i came to his clinic and told ...

A.   2 June 2012: If this was turned around, and the man wasn't taking no for an answer, and physically pushing himself on a woman after she repeatedly said NO, he'd be in jail right now, or at the very least have a restraining order slapped on him. C'mon, he said ... (read in full...)

Help me! My wife has become stupid!

Q.   When I met my wife I was mesmerized by her beauty and brains. Somewhere over the last 20 years, although she is just as beautiful, she has lost all of her wits. She throws tantrums after not being able to figure out the most mundane things like pri...

A.   2 June 2012: It doesn't really sound like she's "dumb", but she has something going on. She sounds unhappy. You sound unhappy also. Have you thought about marriage counseling?? Don't "tactfully suggest" she gets evaluated for mental disease, unless you want her ... (read in full...)

He hurt me so much yet I still love him and want him back

Q.   Hi there. I need some advice I have just ended a nine year relashionship and now five months on I feel it was the biggest mistake of my life, all I do is constantly think about him and realise just how much I love him, we finished because he had an ...

A.   2 June 2012: He gave you an STD!! You really buy that the sauna gave it to him?? Come on now!! He's a piece of shit. He cheated on you when you were with your mom in the hospital. Go hang with friends, make plans, get out and meet new people. I'm sure you'll ... (read in full...)

Which man would lead the better life?

Q.   Can someone please tell me which man lives a better life: A man who has sex with multiple partners due to enjoyment of that or a man who is a virgin, has never had a real girlfriend and has the belief that he will find the girl of his dreams. I'm ...

A.   2 June 2012: Go with the virgin. To hell with inexperience, that can be fixed by some (duh!!) experience!! The virgin sounds like the kind of guy that (if you are the right one for him) would adore you and treat you like the only woman in the world. And us woman ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's mom still buys his underware!

Q.   I know some of you may find this question a bit ridiculous, but it's been driving me mad! My 27 year old boyfriend has never bought his own underwear. His mother buys them. She sends him boxers for every holiday. He has Halloween boxers, Christma...

A.   24 February 2012: If there is one thing I've learned in relationships: pick your battles. Honestly, this should just end up being an inside joke and some chuckles with you two. You didn't say anything else strikes you weird in their relationship? My mom babies my 2... (read in full...)

I don't understand this girl! If I am an important part of her life, then why am I being treated like this?

Q.   Hi, I would really appreciate your advice on this, but first some background: I am 30 and my girlfriend is 28. We started dating 3 years ago, we went out for two months then she left me for her ex. I subsequently found out that they had never split ...

A.   24 February 2012: Whaaaaat?? Seriously?? How can she possibly justify having a party she doesn't even invite her future husband to? I'm not trying to be rude, but she sounds like a pain in the ass. The whole thing of not wanting to contribute (? She's 28?) along w... (read in full...)

I've changed but I don't think boys' views of me have.

Q.   Hey, I'm abit fed up, I date boys but then they always seem to get a gf. I'm not saying I dont get boys attention because I do but I think it's the wrong attention. I admit my past isnt the best and I did use to sleep around, iv slept with 65 bo...

A.   23 February 2012: Well...dress sexy, but classy. Don't look like a streetwalker, or have your buttcheeks hanging out. Guys like a girl like that for sex, and it's a different girl they take around their family and friends and announce she's his gf. A good rule of t... (read in full...)

Should I wait for him to decide if he wants to become more than just friends?

Q.   How bad an idea is it to wait for a friendship with someone to progress to more than friends? We've known each other a year but a few months ago it seems that a mutual attraction developed between us. You know you have really strong feelings ...

A.   23 February 2012: This sounds like how me and my guy were...we're about to have our two year anniversary :o) He was kind of in a position that I knew to give him some time to adjust to the idea- he had been thru some personal hell and hadn't been with someone for ... (read in full...)

Maybe I do lack empathy but has my girlfriend's moaning gone beyond the norm?

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been together 3 years, living together for one. We have good times, we have a healthy relationship in most aspects, but by god there is a problem. She moans and whinges and goes hysterical on a fairly regular basis. ...

A.   10 February 2012: Wow, the beach tantrum is unreal. I feel so sorry for you about that... I don't think you lack empathy. You seem like a cool and caring guy. I'm sure if something real and sad happened you would be caring and comforting. It's just that she's ma... (read in full...)

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