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No replies yet... 27 November 2016: Nothing is really written in stone is it, many things can change dramatically, some can change a little and a few are more or less stable. Dignity and a sense of worth seems so fragile and volatile in some people these days and for them it's always ...
Standing up for yourself in a relationship
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28 July 2015: First of all, I want to start off by saying that I have nothing against men and women who engage in their fantasies whether it's open marriages, candaulism, hotwifing, polyamory or swinging, it's all fine by me as long as it is a shared fantasy,...
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How do I stop feeling so alone when every single friend is coupled up and I have no family?
Q. I have two different friendship groups who I socialise with regularly plus a few friends who I see individually on a regular basis rather than as part of any group. I have known all of them for between 4 and 10 years. They are all aged between ...
A. 2 August 2016: Well if specialized dating sites aren't really the way to go for you, then maybe looking into dating women who have children who are close to adulthood or above (just like all of these fine people have suggested) is something you should consider. ... (read in full...)
How do I stop feeling so alone when every single friend is coupled up and I have no family?
Q. I have two different friendship groups who I socialise with regularly plus a few friends who I see individually on a regular basis rather than as part of any group. I have known all of them for between 4 and 10 years. They are all aged between ...
A. 1 August 2016: If I understand you have tried online dating and it's not working out because you have made choices that may limit dramatically the number of people willing to contact you right? Well, if I assume that you have tried common websites to meet new ... (read in full...)
I got rejected but I still like him
Q. I met a guy on tinder in May and I fell for him and I thought it was mutual because when we see (which is not very often due to his job) we always make out and stuff, plus he once asked me if I would like to fall in love with him. A few days ago, I ...
A. 28 July 2016: Hello there, well I must tell you that the statement he made to you "you would like to fall in love with me?" really jumped out at me because he knows you really like him and by saying that he created a sense of "hoping for more in the future" in ... (read in full...)
He made a remark that upset me. Should I say something to my boyfriend's friend or just let it go?
Q. I was at the beach yesterday with my boyfriend and a couple of his friends were there to meet me for the first time and hang out with us. I was in a 2 piece suit but you could still see a bit of skin. I was devastated when I over heard his...
A. 27 August 2015: Yes, you should definitely confront him (with your boyfriend present so that he knows what you told him) and tell him calmly but firmly that the comment he made was very hurtful and very childish even as a joke (and it's not funny). You can tell him ... (read in full...)
Doctor and dermatologist suggested remedies that have not helped. What else can reduce skin discolouration around inner thigh area?
Q. My inner thighs/groin area is very dark and discolorated and I don't know how to get rid of it. It recently made me feel much worse because my partner noticed it and asked me about it. I read it is a skin condition caused by insulin resistan...
A. 27 August 2015: Hello there, there is a condition called Acanthosis nigricans. I left you a link below (Mayo Clinic) so you can get more information on it and how to treat it, good luck to you.
http:... (read in full...)
Should I ask my boyfriend if he is uncomfortable with my male friend being around so much?
Q. I have a question for Males out there. I have been dating this guy for 5 months, and I completely felt in love with him over the past few months. I recently bought a house and a Male friend is helping with the renovation. My current boyfriend has ...
A. 26 August 2015: To answer your first question, it wouldn't be a bad idea to casually bring it up in a conversation. It's not really a big thing depending on your perspectives (both of you), how you approach the subject and when you decide to do it. People w... (read in full...)
How can I get a date or even just talk to the guy outside work?
Q. I have saw the guy that i liked so much when i was younger and still like today i always have. It was sometime last year and when i wanted to talk to him i actually did with words coming out for a change lol. I found it really harder back then...
A. 11 August 2015: Hello there! Denizen is right, it's as simple as that. Most people get nervous when they want to get the ball rolling to ask someone out. Can't think straight when you're near him ? Afraid to say something that would be embarrassing I suppose ? well ... (read in full...)
My wife talked me into a threesome and she had anal sex with the guy but has never let me. How do I move on?
Q. I have been married for 5 years and recently my wife had started suggesting that she would like to try a 3sum with another man. After some convincing I agreed to have one with her for her birthday. But I should never have agreed to it. In the moment ...
A. 10 August 2015: I was checking up on how things were getting along for you and I was reading your reply to one of the member and you mentioned that some other stuff happened between the two of them when she took him to the bus station...that my friend is cheating ... (read in full...)
My wife talked me into a threesome and she had anal sex with the guy but has never let me. How do I move on?
Q. I have been married for 5 years and recently my wife had started suggesting that she would like to try a 3sum with another man. After some convincing I agreed to have one with her for her birthday. But I should never have agreed to it. In the moment ...
A. 7 August 2015: Hi there, first I'm assuming that you have had a pretty standard relationship with your wife so far (few problems like any other couples but generally happy). Now the thing is that when people do engage in their fantasies for the first time, and ... (read in full...)
I know he's lying, but I feel hurt when he can't finish. Is he not attracted to me?
Q. My man and I have a lot of sex, but sometimes I know he whacks off before we do anything. When I ask him he says,"I don't need to do that", all defensive. I know he's lying, but it hurts my feelings when he can't finish or it’s not as hard as it n...
A. 4 August 2015: You're right, and the wanting basically creates the need for it. Since he's not sharing too much with his girlfriend / wife anymore, maybe counseling could be beneficial to getting the ball rolling in helping him to open up about it.... (read in full...)
Standing up for yourself in a relationship
Q. First of all, I want to start off by saying that I have nothing against men and women who engage in their fantasies whether it's open marriages, candaulism, hotwifing, polyamory or swinging, it's all fine by me as long as it is a shared fantasy,...
A. 3 August 2015: Hi there, great! I wasn't sure if I did it correctly. Thanks for the compliment and have a great day.
Take care... (read in full...)
I know he's lying, but I feel hurt when he can't finish. Is he not attracted to me?
Q. My man and I have a lot of sex, but sometimes I know he whacks off before we do anything. When I ask him he says,"I don't need to do that", all defensive. I know he's lying, but it hurts my feelings when he can't finish or it’s not as hard as it n...
A. 3 August 2015: Hi there! me again. Well if he started this after you began your relationship, it could mean (once again, not written in stone) that there was and still is an unresolved issue that led to you two drifting apart, and when that happens people tend to ... (read in full...)
I know he's lying, but I feel hurt when he can't finish. Is he not attracted to me?
Q. My man and I have a lot of sex, but sometimes I know he whacks off before we do anything. When I ask him he says,"I don't need to do that", all defensive. I know he's lying, but it hurts my feelings when he can't finish or it’s not as hard as it n...
A. 2 August 2015: Hi there first I want to say that I'm giving you my opinion, I'm not a psychologist or sexologist. Your boyfriend / husband has lots of porn on his Twitter account and on his phone as I understand right? so there are many factors to consider here. ... (read in full...)
Standing up for yourself in a relationship
Q. First of all, I want to start off by saying that I have nothing against men and women who engage in their fantasies whether it's open marriages, candaulism, hotwifing, polyamory or swinging, it's all fine by me as long as it is a shared fantasy,...
A. 2 August 2015: Note to everyone, I'm the one who wrote it the article and I wanted to answer the member Abella to the answer she wrote. I guess I didn't post it correctly so it looks a bit stupid but no, I'm not answering myself.
Cheers everyone!!!... (read in full...)
Standing up for yourself in a relationship
Q. First of all, I want to start off by saying that I have nothing against men and women who engage in their fantasies whether it's open marriages, candaulism, hotwifing, polyamory or swinging, it's all fine by me as long as it is a shared fantasy,...
A. 1 August 2015: Hi there, thank you for your response. I totally agree with you and celebrate the way you see things on this particular matter. What you have mentioned had me thinking about the correlation between fear and our relations to our significant others, ... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as commitment phobia?
Q. Hi, I'm just out of a 4 years relationship that really broke my heart. My boyfriend left me saying he was mixed up, and needed to do soul searching. It has been a week since we are separated and with no contact. I am just beginning ...
A. 28 July 2015: Hi there, I don't know the type of relationship you two had one on one on a day to day basis when you were living together (ex : closes interactions like displays of affection, communication dynamics, complicity and general intimacy) but I can tell ... (read in full...)
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