My married lover and I are soulmates but he won't leave his wife because of the kids! What can I do?
Q. Hi, I've been having an affair with a married man for three years nearly. We completely are soul-mates. We have shared so many of the same personal experiences that are very hard for anyone to come to terms with. We can talk about anything...he ...
A. 23 November 2009: If he wanted you he would have left his wife. You have been accommodating and you'll satisfy his needs for the moment. I would tell him to get lost - 3 years is a long time to still be getting slopping seconds. I bet he still sleeps with his ... (read in full...)
3 guys... who do I choose?
Q. I'm really confused, i like 3 guys and 2 of them are claiming they love me and the other one is my best friend. They are all really different, yet they all care about me in the same way, they all hate seeing me upset and want to help, they all make ...
A. 28 October 2009: Goodness 3 men to choose from - how confusing! Are they just friends or do we assume you've had sex with them?
I think this is a recipe for disaster.
Ask yourself a few questions? Which one of these guys would you miss? Which one of the... (read in full...)
Why won't she give me head? She doesn't realise we guys need these things!
Q. So my girlfriend and I started out having sex all the time. Lately we have stopped doing it, like once every 2 months. She said she's scared and i respect that. She used to give me head also, but now she completely hates it. I do everything for ...
A. 28 October 2009: I hope you're not being too pushy with her. Reading your post was somewhat alarming as if having 'head' was all you need to be happy and that her giving you 'head' would mean you would do more - if she doesn't give you 'head' you won't be ... (read in full...)
Can online romance be real?
Q. Hi everybody. I just want to ask you guys question. Do you guys believe in online love? I met this guy who have same birthday,same satuition about pass relationship and almost everything are same.We chat on the internet for couple times. Yesterday ...
A. 28 October 2009: Be very cautious about people who express undying love to you when they have never seen you! Some people pretend online - how can you be sure if he's not already married? Does he have children? The internet has given so many men the oppportunity ... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty about watching porn?
Q. I watch a lot of porn and can't help myself everytime I try to stop. Should I feel guilty about this?...
A. 28 October 2009: It depends if you have a partner/wife or not. If you become so addicted to porn to the exclusion of your social life; your work or your partner then you have a problem. If you start lying because you have to get back to watch porn then you have a ... (read in full...)
Help with my boyfriend that's addicted to porn, but still has sex with me. I feel like I'm his sloppy seconds.
Q. My boyfriend masturbates to porn everyday. He still has sex with me, but it makes me feel horrible about myself because I am a very attractive woman that is in my early 40's. I look very good for my age. Men tell me all the time that any guy ...
A. 22 October 2009: Hi I understand your concerns as I'm going through similar problems with my husband. Not only does he have an addiciton to porn but an addiction to gambling. It has practically ruined us financially. I also discovered that he met these women on... (read in full...)
He's acting suspiciously and I think he's cheating; should I leave him?
Q. i am currently with a man whom for 4yrs we have been going out as a couple. recently things aint been great due to the fact that he`s a selfish,self centered pig,and i love him. i am 99% sure hes having an affair,secret txts,silent phone ...
A. 27 June 2007: Hi - I know how you feel. My husband carries his phone everywhere and won't even tell me the password for his laptop. He's secretive and its getting worse. I recently bought a voice recorder and discovered he was enjoying himself a lot by visiting ... (read in full...)
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