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female
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26-29,
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writes:I'm really confused, i like 3 guys and 2 of them are claiming they love me and the other one is my best friend. They are all really different, yet they all care about me in the same way, they all hate seeing me upset and want to help, they all make me laugh.guy1: I went out with for a week over a year ago. Always jokes about us having sex, tells me he loves me and keeps asking if i have made my decision about who i like, and keeps saying we should go out.quote: "why dont we try it out and see if it is right then for us to go out yeah""i will never let you get those emotions and get upset so why not go out with me"guy2: the sweetest guy in the world. i went out with his best friend earlier this year, he has set me up with 2 people and now feels stupid about it, he says the sweetest things, he doesn't pressurise me to go out with him and says he doesn't mind if i go out with someone else but he will still feel the same about me.quote: "yeah well the truth is i think ur amazing and one of the most gorgeous girls that have ever graced the face of this planet, and i just love u""btw im not one of this really jealous people so if u wanna go out with someone else i dont mind but ill still feel the same lol"guy3: he is my best guy friend, not the kind of guy people usually fall for, but there is something about him that always just makes me feel so happy. he will always notice when i am not myself, he notices before my best girl friends.I can't put quotes for this guy, because i don't think he likes me in that way, and if he does, he doesn't admit it.How can I make a decision about these guys?
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reader, Barbara +, writes (28 October 2009):
Goodness 3 men to choose from - how confusing! Are they just friends or do we assume you've had sex with them?
I think this is a recipe for disaster.
Ask yourself a few questions? Which one of these guys would you miss? Which one of these guys would you trust?
Which one of these guys is dependable? Which one do you really fancy? How long have you known them? Do they want you just for sex?
I'm sure you can find a lot more questions to ask youself. BE true to yourself and if none of them meet your criteria then just be friends. Just be careful who you sleep with and don't upset them.
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