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Is my girlfriend still a virgin, if she has been poked?

Q.   Hi, I'm 16 and so is my girlfriend. We have been together for just under 11 morths and are thinking about having sex. We are both virgins. But, she is worried that she isn't a virgin because one her ex boyfriends poked in a past relation...

A.   14 January 2011: My dear, You need to mind your own business to be honest and reassure this girl that you love her as you say you do. If she isn't a virgin it would be you and only you she has ever loved.. That is more than being or not being a virgin my dear. ... (read in full...)

I want to break up this couple

Q.   I have decided to fight for the girl I love even though she is in a relationship with someone else. I understand I am doing something extremely unethical and horrible but I just could not persuade myself to stand there like an idiot and watch ...

A.   14 January 2011: Dear, Let her go okay and no friendship, its just false hope. If you see her hello how you doing and go your business. Tell her how you feel and let her go. if she wants you she knows actually where to find you.... This isn't an essay answer,... (read in full...)

I am not sure if I can deal with her sexual history, should I cancel my marriage plans?

Q.   I recently got engaged with a girl that i love, she is about 35 and i am 30, during our initial dates she did tell me that she had many ex-partners and also a lesbian sex with as many as 5 girls, everytime we make love i have to use my fingures ...

A.   14 January 2011: Dear, Your wife to be could have shut up and not tell you a thing and you wouldn't have know a thing... If you didn't know would you be making wedding plans?? Relax and get your wedding plans sorted out before you loose her forever..... (read in full...)

Help! I am suffocating him!

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now, and recently he told me that I have been sort of "suffocating" him in away, he says that when he first got with me he thought that he was going to be the "Annoying" "giving too much attention" to me ...

A.   14 January 2011: Hi dear, Well i'm gonna keep it short.. we all hear him loud and clear and he has told you... now that is fine and we do hear him whinging about too much love attention he is getting now that is fine... Now you are an affectionate person which he... (read in full...)

Every time I like a guy he always likes my best friend

Q.   This has been happening ever since grade 2 and I'm sick of it. Every time i like a guy he ends up liking another girl or my best friend. Only once has a guy liked me. and this time the guy i liked ended up being in LOVE with my bestbest friend he ...

A.   14 January 2011: You are young my dear, look good and you'll feel nice so the one for you won't walk on bye because they can't see you. Suck it up let them like your mates even if it's your best friend. You like ice cream I bet but may fancy chocolate instead... ... (read in full...)

How do I come out as the bigger person?

Q.   ok please can i get advice on what to do. i recently found out ive been played by a guy i thought was a genuine sincere friend. I thought he cared about me as i did him but discovered recently that hes used me and hes also a liar. hes lied over pr...

A.   14 January 2011: Dear, Let this friend go ... and then you will be the bigger person because you will be so happy that he will be the butt of your friendship jokes... We all been there... let him go my dear it is hard because you care for him Wrapp him up and put ... (read in full...)

He says he loves me... but does he mean it?

Q.   I have a boyfriend who tells me he loves me all the time in person and over the phone, etc. The problem is when he says it in person to me he never looks me in the face. What does this mean? I would think someone whould look you in the face if ...

A.   14 January 2011: Hi there, He may be shy about love etc you know some guys can be like that. However, ask yourself does he show you love are you feeling his love for you... It's important to know that anyone can say 'I love you .. I'm gonna do this for you... a... (read in full...)

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