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What's the best time of day to take my birth control pill?

Q.   Hi, I just began taking birth control and I began taking it at eleven in the morning because that's when I have a break in my classes, so I've done that for one week consistently, but now I was thinking maybe it would be best to take it right before ...

A.   21 March 2006: I take mine in a morning, I keep them in my make up bag so that I won't forget to take them, it really works too! Never missed one yet! Hope this helps..x... (read in full...)

She claims never to have "flicked the bean"... Is this normal!?

Q.   I have a question that I'm appealing to the women to help me with. My wife of 20 years, claims she has never masturbated. Not once in her life. Is this on the extreme end of normal/common? I have a hard time imagining that. I'm not saying it's ...

A.   21 March 2006: She sounds like she's telling the truth chuck, I have masterbated a few times but don't find it appealing really! It's much better when other's are doing it for you!! Everyone's different!! Not men though! Good luck!... (read in full...)

Been through a bit of a "dry spell" and now I'm quite used to it!

Q.   am 20 and me an my boyfriend have been togeter 4 one year and when i meet him i havent had sex in two year at frist i wanted sex all the time and not i dont i think it is that i was so used to not haveing sex that now i dont want it i think he ...

A.   21 March 2006: You shouldn't discuss how often in my opinion, you should just let it flow when the time is right for you both, talking about it only makes things awkward when you come round to doing it and you both will end up 'feeling' like you HAVE to do it so ... (read in full...)

Sex, sex, sex. Sex. Sexsex. That's all he wants to talk about, and I'm SICK of it!

Q.   I have a problem My boyfriend and I have been together 2 months. He seems to have a very high sex drive. We haven't had sex yet as i want to wait, but my problem is, i want to talk about things in our relationship and how much i love him and thi...

A.   21 March 2006: I know it's hard because I was in your position, but if its any conselation, my boyfriend isn't like that at all now, it's the other way around! He doesn't tend to want to have sex as much as I do! Make the most of it! Only joking! You got to ... (read in full...)

He won't have sex and he's crazy moody and nasty... Why?

Q.   I have two problems in my relationship. One is that my boyfriend has gone right off sex recently and I haven't a clue why, I am lucky if I get to have sex with him once a week now and it used to be at least once a day!! I have been with him for ...

A.   21 March 2006: Thanks you guys, I will take the advice you've given me. He kicks off at me and then later on he'll apologise, but to be quite honest, I'm sick of his apologies and having to accept it all the time and I've told him that. He just keeps saying ... (read in full...)

Never had an orgasm in my life. What can I try?

Q.   Hi there, I am 51 years old and my boyfriend is 36 years old. I can't get an orgasim and I have never had one in my life. I feel so ashamed and I can't enjoy sex. Can you suggest anything? ...

A.   20 March 2006: The only way a man has ever made me orgasm is by oral sex, this is the best and most intense orgasm, have you tried this? My BF just fooled around and he knew what I thought felt good by my reaction! Once he has found that 'spot', you gotta go ... (read in full...)

Any tips on attraction?

Q.   It seems that everyone I like never likes me back, at least at the same time. I don't know what to do, because I am getting very impatient. Every time I like someone and I think they like me back, something always goes wrong. What is the best way to ...

A.   20 March 2006: Well I personally think that the best way to 'get' a man is to let them do all the work and chase you, men seem to like a challenge! However, to get s guy's attention to start with is hard!! You should just seem to 'bump into him' now and again ... (read in full...)

My GF left me one night after saying how much she loved me, and all she left was a note...

Q.   Four weeks ago my g/f left me while I was at work. She left a note saying, "I'm sorry but I've left you, need some time on my own, staying with a mate, take care. I'm sorry. Thanks for everything." We were together 3 years, and the night before...

A.   20 March 2006: That's a hard one chuck, in my opinion, if a girl that I loved so much did that to me, she's not worth having your love because if she loved you as much as you thought, she wouldn't have just left you in the way she did! She may be back, but before ... (read in full...)

No more affection after engagement...please help!

Q.   My fiance and i have been living together for 4 years now and everytime i ask him when were getting married, he doesn't know. it seems like ever since we've gottrn rngaged he's become distant. No more cuddling, no kissses, getting him to make love ...

A.   20 March 2006: That sounds like my boyfriend. It's really hard to understand ain't it, in my opinion it's because he has HAD to work hard all this time to get engaged to you and now that he 'has' you (he's engaged to you) he thinks he doesn't have to try ... (read in full...)

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