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writes: am 20 and me an my boyfriend have been togeter 4 one year and when i meet him i havent had sex in two year at frist i wanted sex all the time and not i dont i think it is that i was so used to not haveing sex that now i dont want it i think he will live me if i dont fix this can someone help me (sorry i can right that good ) Reply to this Question
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reader, atomic +, writes (21 March 2006):
You shouldn't discuss how often in my opinion, you should just let it flow when the time is right for you both, talking about it only makes things awkward when you come round to doing it and you both will end up 'feeling' like you HAVE to do it so many times a week and that's not natural, do it when you both want it, that's always the best way, good luck! x
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (17 March 2006):
 When we first enter into a sexual relationship we do have sex a lot as it is new, exciting and it ensures bonding, but as time goes by we have sex less and that is fine, but sometimes we want less sex than our partner and that can cause difficulties.
You need to think about how oftern you want sex and how oftern he wants it, make sure you discuss this with him and when you do have sex make sure it is quality sex as that is more important than how frequent, quality over quantity every time.
You are worried that he will leave you if you dont give him enough sex, well he might and if he does it is his loss and shows how shallow he is and how little regard he holds for you.
So try and have good sex but make sure you do it enough to keep both of you happy and if you dont like sex with him anymore think about why that is.
Maybe the relationship is just not as good as you think it is.
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