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Gossip mongers got me going

Q.   How do u act around people that gossip? I recently started a job and I noticed that two of my coworkers are partaking in chit chat - one of them first asked for my social media accounts right away (I only knew him for a month) and he wanted to add ...

A.   16 November 2017: I think maybe their reason for the chitchat and the gossip could simply be because they are bored, or they are trying to fit in. Or it could just be another coping mechanism for their work. I would suggest to you, dont part-take in it unless you ... (read in full...)

I love someone more than my boyfriend. And I cheated on him with the other person.

Q.   So i recently cheated on my boyfriend. This is actually quite a long story but I’ll try to sum it up as much as possible. Early this summer I started talking to this guy, let’s call him James, we’ll james and I hit it off. He was perfect beyond ...

A.   13 November 2017: You arent a bad person, maybe your just being pulled two sides. The best thing you can listen to right now is your heart (o know it sounds cliche) but its true. Think about who you are more in love with, more attracted too, more happier with. ... (read in full...)

Is there slightly more creative way of surprising her with these books, other than handing her the present and saying Happy Birthday?

Q.   Not really a relationship question but any help is appreciated. Recently A Series of Unfortunate Events has made it's way onto Netflix and I have a female friend who absolutely loved it. She and I both share a particular liking for th...

A.   7 February 2017: Hey, i think that is such a lovely idea and im sure she would appreciate it greatly. I love creating diffetent ways of giving someone a gift, so its not the usual you know? You could maybe put them into a box? So she wont be able to feel wha... (read in full...)

How do I beat my shyness

Q.   I've known that somebody in my school is attracted to me, and I have to say for myself that I am attracted as well. However, I and my ' crush ' are shy people (We usually talk to each other and get along well). It's difficult to proceed as I am ...

A.   6 February 2017: Hey, im also shy too. Worrying i wont ever overcome this either. However, with what you are saying, if you are both shy, why dont you maybe do something together as a way of breaking the ice. I know it is going to be very daunting at the ... (read in full...)

How do I proceed ? I want to ask her out and we are both shy people.

Q.   I've known that somebody in my school has been attracted to me, and I have come to say for myself that I am attracted as well. However, I can say myself that I am a shy person and my ' crush ' is shy person (We usually talk to each other and get ...

A.   5 February 2017: Hi, i kind of understand how you must feel. I am an extremely shy person too, dont really speak to anyone. But if you both are getting along well with one another already.. why dont you just ask them. Im sure that they would appreciate you taking ... (read in full...)

Are my friends wrong? Is this a sugar daddy relationship? Or do I tell him how I really feel?

Q.   I moved to a different province for school. I ended up meeting an older guy , he's 41. We decided to not focus on labels and to just have fun , we both agreed that because of our age difference changes are our relationship wouldn't probably last ...

A.   23 January 2017: When reading your question, the only advice which i can think of. Is, do what makes you happy, think about how you feel. Your friend may just be looking out for you, so dont take it too badly, but why dont you focus on your own well being for now ... (read in full...)

She has helped me a lot through some difficult times. Would it be acceptable to send her flowers as a thank you?

Q.   I have a female friend who I have known since I was 4, she is the same age as me and although we lost contact for a number of years. We are back in contact. Whenever I had problems she always knew what to say and since being back in touch she has...

A.   23 January 2017: I hope everything is getting a little bit better for you and im glad she has been there for you through the hard times. The flowers though, what message are you trying to give? Are you just offering a thank you? Or are you trying to show you may ... (read in full...)

Is she his EX? Is my BF being honest to me? He seems very emotionally connected to his woman he says he is helping due to the woman's health issues

Q.   About almost TWO years ago, my boyfriend who is 37 years old asked me (28 years old) to do him a favour and to please call his female ”friend” (27 years old) to give her an address (which I looked up and it happened to be of a lawyer as far as I can ...

A.   18 January 2017: I hope you manage to be able to sort things out with your boyfriend, surely he may be able to see how much it is distressing you? Maybe he will soon realise what is more important for him, and start considering you more in his life in comp... (read in full...)

Boyfriend doesn't post us on social media

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been official for about 90 days. I have very few complaints about him- I'm extremely happy. We go out regularly and spend lots of quality time together and go on fun dates. But he has nothing about us posted on social media. ...

A.   17 January 2017: I am guessing maybe you dont feel as if you are classed as official if he hasnt posted anything on social media, or that maybe he feels embarrassed of you. However, i highly doubt thats what he thinks, maybe he is just the kind of person who does... (read in full...)

Is she his EX? Is my BF being honest to me? He seems very emotionally connected to his woman he says he is helping due to the woman's health issues

Q.   About almost TWO years ago, my boyfriend who is 37 years old asked me (28 years old) to do him a favour and to please call his female ”friend” (27 years old) to give her an address (which I looked up and it happened to be of a lawyer as far as I can ...

A.   17 January 2017: Your situation appears to be rather complicated by the way you describe it, because i dont know your partner personally, it comes across as he is a guy with maybe a good heart. Why dont you maybe explain your feelings to him? How you think he is po... (read in full...)

I feel like my boyfriend isn't really committed to me!

Q.   Hi, I'm just looking for some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I'm really unhappy. I feel like he isn't really committed to me, I'll give you some examples. He's messaged other girls behind my back and admitted he l...

A.   15 January 2017: Trying to put myself into your shoes, i know that speaking of a future can be something which instantly puts the other person off. They may feel like you are rushing them into something which they do not want. You need to be your main priority... (read in full...)

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