The bible says turn the cheek when someone hits you, but enough is enough, I want my own revenge!
Q. Hi all I'm a good decent guy. I treat people like I want to be treated and I live my life always thinking about others and caring for them. I recently found out my gf has been cheating on me from the start of our relationship plus shes into ...
A. 1 June 2012: I know it's hard to stand by when someone has wronged you, but trying to "get revenge" on this girl will only sink you to her level. It's pretty clear from what you have posted that she's not on a good path in life, and sooner or later the drug use ... (read in full...)
How does a person get quality dates?
Q. I'm pretty {sure, not everyone's cup of tea and with several flaws, but I'm attractive still}, smart, witty. I don't have issues getting male attention when I go out, but I do have issues getting quality dates. I don't really care for the kind of ...
A. 21 May 2012: Take up an activity or sport that is predominantly "male" and see what happens. I live this on a daily basis at the rock climbing gym I go to and I'm neither overly attractive nor looking for dates. Literally, it's gotten to where I take headphones ... (read in full...)
How can I get a cougar woman? This is a personal choice of mine, and I wish to get me a relationship with one.
Q. Hi, everyone. I have a specific goal that I wish to acheive. I'm in my early 20's, I still am a virgin, I STILL don't know what a kiss feels like, etc. So, I figure, to kill 2 birds with 1 stone, I should get together with a cougar. However,...
A. 19 May 2012: As a woman not far from your age group, I'll be frank with you: I think the real obstacle between you and losing your virginity is that you seem to be looking for sex with no strings attached. You'll find that not many women in any age group, ... (read in full...)
I'm panicking because I'm 29 and still single
Q. Im panicking because Im almost 29 and still single. I have a 2 year old son but no longer with his father. I have very brief relationships with guys as they all seem to be wrong for me or treat me bad. I met a really nice guy a few weeks ago and we ...
A. 19 May 2012: You mention that you feel a lot of pressure to find someone and settle down... who is pressuring you? 29 is not old to be single, especially in modern society where many women want and expect to have stable careers outside of the home. It'... (read in full...)
Can being friends with benefits bring us back together? Or is it wishful thinking?
Q. My girlfriend and I broke up several months ago after her mother was ill and passed away. At first I was there for her 1000% and we agreed to remain friends. After all she's my best friend. We were together for 6 years by the way. She told me a ...
A. 18 May 2012: Staying FWB with this girl allows her to keep you around while keeping her options open, or even actively looking for someone she perceives as a "better" option. Are you prepared for that possibility? In the meantime, you're essentially crippling ... (read in full...)
Will I be more than just a hook up?
Q. I have fallen for my sometimes hook up. We see each other only a few times a month. We chat every other day or so. He is not into having a relationship. I knew this and was ok but something about him is so amazing other than sex. I tried to break ...
A. 18 May 2012: If he's currently gettting good sex with no strings attached he has no reason to step up his game and commit to you only.
In answer to your question, there's really only one way to find out... make good on your previous vow to cut contact with him... (read in full...)
My wife had sex with 10 guys by the time she was 19 Is that normal?
Q. I am 35 and my wife is 34, and she has had sex with 11 men in her life including me. That might not sound like a massive number of partners relative to her age, but the other 10 guys were all between the ages of 15-19. From 19-30 she was with one ...
A. 18 May 2012: Without knowing your wife or the specifics of her childhood/adolescence, it's really hard to say what's "normal." As you've observed, some women reach "numbers" in the 50s or above in a very short time, others stay virgins until marriage. It would ... (read in full...)
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