15 year age gap is my concern
Q. I met this guy. He is now 56 and I am 41. Both of us have never been married and no children. He has asked me for a commitment to a relationship and I think he will look for marriage later. This is not a short term relationship. He is a smart,...
A. 15 July 2015: here is the latest update. I have decided to take your advices and have since entered into a committed relationship with him despite his age gap. He is really a very nice guy and has been really good to me. I believe I would be making a mistake if I ... (read in full...)
15 year age gap is my concern
Q. I met this guy. He is now 56 and I am 41. Both of us have never been married and no children. He has asked me for a commitment to a relationship and I think he will look for marriage later. This is not a short term relationship. He is a smart,...
A. 21 October 2014: anonymous female reader, do you have children then? Was that a concern for you when you got married? ... (read in full...)
15 year age gap is my concern
Q. I met this guy. He is now 56 and I am 41. Both of us have never been married and no children. He has asked me for a commitment to a relationship and I think he will look for marriage later. This is not a short term relationship. He is a smart,...
A. 28 September 2014: Thanks for the answers. It is clear that since kids are not possible and advisable with him, it's a deal breaker. I should look elsewhere.
Now it's clearer :)
Thanks.... (read in full...)
15 year age gap is my concern
Q. I met this guy. He is now 56 and I am 41. Both of us have never been married and no children. He has asked me for a commitment to a relationship and I think he will look for marriage later. This is not a short term relationship. He is a smart,...
A. 27 September 2014: I am still dating this 56 year old man. He is kind, attentive and very supportive. However besides concerns about finance I have another concern. After marriage , Is it too late to have a child with him since he would be 57 or 58 by the time I ... (read in full...)
15 year age gap is my concern
Q. I met this guy. He is now 56 and I am 41. Both of us have never been married and no children. He has asked me for a commitment to a relationship and I think he will look for marriage later. This is not a short term relationship. He is a smart,...
A. 13 August 2014: I have mixed feelings. He is a great guy but maybe only for now? 10 years later will I be left alone and would only be 60 then.
Being involved with a 56 year old , does it mean I can't have a child or I find myself being a single parent later ? ... (read in full...)
15 year age gap is my concern
Q. I met this guy. He is now 56 and I am 41. Both of us have never been married and no children. He has asked me for a commitment to a relationship and I think he will look for marriage later. This is not a short term relationship. He is a smart,...
A. 10 July 2014: Dear Euphoric29 and so very confused, Thanks for your advice. So very confused, your situation is the opposite of mine. So I am afraid I may end up with a huge burden if age gap is a problem and face the probability that I might be widowed much ... (read in full...)
Five dates and his profile's still active? Should I move on?
Q. I met this guy online on an online dating site. After writing to each other for two days, we decided to meet. I really like him and we went on our fifth date last weekend. It has been four weeks since we started meeting each other. He has ne...
A. 22 August 2013: Thanks highmaintenance. I will read it :)... (read in full...)
Five dates and his profile's still active? Should I move on?
Q. I met this guy online on an online dating site. After writing to each other for two days, we decided to meet. I really like him and we went on our fifth date last weekend. It has been four weeks since we started meeting each other. He has ne...
A. 14 August 2013: He returned from his vacation in Indonesia and did not text me to say he is back. When I text to ask him, "you are back?", he replied "I think so..."
His profile is still on. With such a disinterested approach and answer , I have decided to move... (read in full...)
Five dates and his profile's still active? Should I move on?
Q. I met this guy online on an online dating site. After writing to each other for two days, we decided to meet. I really like him and we went on our fifth date last weekend. It has been four weeks since we started meeting each other. He has ne...
A. 4 August 2013: Thank you highmaintenance for the advice.it is consistent with what others around me are saying. i will reduce my outings with him and just let it go. thanks! ... (read in full...)
Five dates and his profile's still active? Should I move on?
Q. I met this guy online on an online dating site. After writing to each other for two days, we decided to meet. I really like him and we went on our fifth date last weekend. It has been four weeks since we started meeting each other. He has ne...
A. 31 July 2013: ok, I asked. He was married and got divorced in 2009. No kids. He said his ex wife was a career woman and did not want kids. He had no objection since he is pro choice. I asked why they split then. He said she was going to the clubs and pubs too ... (read in full...)
Five dates and his profile's still active? Should I move on?
Q. I met this guy online on an online dating site. After writing to each other for two days, we decided to meet. I really like him and we went on our fifth date last weekend. It has been four weeks since we started meeting each other. He has ne...
A. 19 July 2013: Thanks all for the advice. I have put my profile back up with some changes to it. Since he has not removed his, I agree I should not remove mine. He has not asked me to take mine off. At the moment, I realized he is communicating le... (read in full...)
I asked him where the relationship was headed and now he seems distant
Q. I have been dating this guy for 3 months. Everything was going really well until I commited the ultimate girl mistake in a new relationship: I asked where this was all headed.... surprisingly he was very calm (i could tell he was annoyed but was ...
A. 30 September 2012: I am experiencing something similar. Every time you show a sign of wanting some sort of commitment, these men seem to scurry off into hiding. I know it is very very hard, but in times like these, perhaps it is best to go and look elsewhere. Frankly, ... (read in full...)
He Likes me or He likes me Not
Q. I recently met a man online. On our first date, we met for tea and kept it short as he had another business meeting to attend that day. He then arranged for a very romantic dinner on our second date and we talked for 3 hours. We kissed and hugged. ...
A. 18 September 2012: Thanks Bondgirl for sharing. 7 years is a very long time and I am glad it only took me two months to know he is not the one for me or what I expected, my McDreamy. :). I won't expect him to change and he should know his actions are telling me, he is ... (read in full...)
He Likes me or He likes me Not
Q. I recently met a man online. On our first date, we met for tea and kept it short as he had another business meeting to attend that day. He then arranged for a very romantic dinner on our second date and we talked for 3 hours. We kissed and hugged. ...
A. 17 September 2012: Thanks bondgirl and cindy cares. I know I have been patient enough and he is obviously not that interested. I am just being kept on the side and I should make that known how I feel if he should contact me again. I don't want to waste my time on ... (read in full...)
He Likes me or He likes me Not
Q. I recently met a man online. On our first date, we met for tea and kept it short as he had another business meeting to attend that day. He then arranged for a very romantic dinner on our second date and we talked for 3 hours. We kissed and hugged. ...
A. 17 September 2012: He just returned from a business trip. I have been very patient and I have not seen him since July 17th. I do receive text messages from him when I send them to him. But that is it. I also notice that whenever he calls me, he is calling me while on ... (read in full...)
He Likes me or He likes me Not
Q. I recently met a man online. On our first date, we met for tea and kept it short as he had another business meeting to attend that day. He then arranged for a very romantic dinner on our second date and we talked for 3 hours. We kissed and hugged. ...
A. 2 September 2012: Thank you Blonde30s.
I will definitely ask him what he wants when we do meet after his business trip two weeks later. Meanwhile I found out he has removed his online profile but I am still keeping mine online since I do not know if he is into a c... (read in full...)
Should I stay or should I go?
Q. I met this guy online and when i asked him if he lived in Singapore, he told me no, but he would be back four weeks later. I waited for a month and during that month, I spent my time talking to him. I am impressed and instantly know I love the ...
A. 22 May 2012: It's been almost a year since my last post on this question. He continued to talk to me every day and advised me on my fitness programme. I am fitter now , doing well, but still no sight of him. I told him I was going to be in Bangkok this weekend ( ... (read in full...)
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