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The ex is getting in the way. How do I build more trust between us to keep us rock solid ?

Q.   my boyfriend and I have known each other for eight years. We were always great friends, even tried dating in the beginning of the relationship. At first, it never worked out. So we remain close friends, but we were always attracted to each other. ...

A.   21 September 2011: I totally understand where ou are coming from. I guess there is also more to the story. His personality is VERY shy. He HATES confrontations and does his best to avoid them, which I am exact opposite. I am one who stands up and I will fight for what ... (read in full...)

What can I learn from this? And can I get over it? I am a major reason for her changing and for the breakup.

Q.   So.. I have been with this girl for a bit over two years now. one and a half of it being long distance. We broke up recently, basically we were breaking and making up for the last 3 months of the relationship. This was the final one basicall...

A.   21 September 2011: I understand that is hard. Problem is, there is trust issues. BIG trust issues. The point she is making, (which I admit I do a lot) is that if my boyfriend makes a bag issue over something small and something he KNOWS not to worry about makes me ... (read in full...)

Three weeks into the relationship. What present would not "spook" seeing as it's early days?

Q.   Hi All, A quick question something I haven't come across before early on in the dating process. I have been dating a girl for 3 weeks, we met online and chatted on the phone etc for about a month before this. We have since had 4 /5 dates. It's her ...

A.   21 September 2011: I would say just flowers and a card would be nice. I do not think that would be coming on too strong. Anything more than that, I can see she would be thinking you are moving a little fast.... (read in full...)

How can I change so I can trust him again and not be so insecure about the way I look?

Q.   Hello im stuck I basically have trust issues with my boyfriend we have been going out for nearly 7 months now and at the begining of the relationship I saw that he had asked a girl to meet up with him and that he had missed there conversations ...

A.   21 September 2011: I am going through the same exact issue. I know its hard. TRUST me! Me and him deal with it every day to the point, I will go on his phone constantly. What had helped us A LOT was deleting facebook. To be honest, that website is the devil and ... (read in full...)

How do I build up to sober sex with him?

Q.   I just got into a new relationship with an incredible guy, and we have so much fun with one another. We went to a party recently, got drunk, and had sex for the first time together. My question is, how do I now build up to sober sex with him, ...

A.   21 September 2011: I would take my time and let things fall into place. Get to know each other more and to be honest the sex will be even better and mean a lot more, once you really get to know him. ... (read in full...)

Why is my ex texting me? Does she want me back?

Q.   So my girlfriend broke up with me about three months ago. She texts me every once and a while and tells me she misses me but besides that not much. A couple of days ago we got into a small argument and she said, "I dont think that we should talk ...

A.   21 September 2011: She is playing with your mind. Pretty much, she can do whatever she wants to do, but keep you on a leash because she does not want anyone else to have you. A lot of girls are that way. :( If I was you, be upfront, tell her you can not play mind ... (read in full...)

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