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writes:I just got into a new relationship with an incredible guy, and we have so much fun with one another. We went to a party recently, got drunk, and had sex for the first time together. My question is, how do I now build up to sober sex with him, because obviously alcohol made me less nervous and hesitant. I've had a few sexual partners before, but he was a virgin, so it was probably kind of his idea for us to drink first so he wouldn't be nervous and so I wouldn't care, I just don't want it to end up being the only way we can have sex and be comfortable around each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys. Since the party we've been spending a lot of sober time together, and everything has been great. Things are falling into place. Thanks again :)
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reader, amh87  +, writes (21 September 2011):
I would take my time and let things fall into place. Get to know each other more and to be honest the sex will be even better and mean a lot more, once you really get to know him.
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reader, adoresdior +, writes (21 September 2011):
if you're not comfortable with him than you should not be having sex with him. If you guys continue on like this where you guys don't have a strong solid relationship and contining having sex it's going to really mess things up for you and your guys relationship is just going to be based on sex. Are you guys together? Wait out on sex until you are fully comfortable with him.. And the sex will even sooo much better once you feel completely yourself. Goodluck :)
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