I'm not experienced at dating and don't understand this guy
Q. I am very inexperienced when it comes to dating. I fell in love with a guy who told me he loved me and was interested in me for several years (we work together and met a few years ago). On the first date he told me I was a woman of his dreams and ...
A. 6 July 2010: Sorry, but it looks like you are his booty call. Sadly there are plenty of those guys, all ages, in this world. But there are also lots of good guys out there. Just move on and look for the 24/7, one woman man.
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How do I deal with the jealousy after a breakup?
Q. My boyfriend just broke up with me. He said because he's a bad person, and isn't 100% into the relationship and personally, don't think hes 100% into me. He started running around with other girls. Especially this one girl who is one of his only ...
A. 6 July 2010: Sometimes its not really jealousy. Its more the fact that he moved on and you did not. But then he moved on while he was still your boyfriend. Be glade its over. And yes, its hard to imagine now, but in time you will see this as a blessing. You did ... (read in full...)
Falling in Love with the " Other Guy"
Q. I need help. I have been with my bf for over 4 years. We live together and everything. Our realtionship was perfect untill he cheated on me 6 months ago. I rightfully cheated right back on him and hooked up with some random. I thought I was over it, ...
A. 6 July 2010: The grass is not greener on the other side. Been there, done that, regret it. How much trust do you put in someone who is not even broken up yet and is already looking? If you do not want to be with your boyfriend anymore, then don't. Let him know ... (read in full...)
A month ago he proposed but now I'm thinking it was a mistake to say yes
Q. Hello, I've been with my boyfriend for about two and a half years. Earlier this year, I was relocated for my job and had to move about 2 hours north of where I lived with my boyfriend. The job is pretty demanding, but I try to visit him once a...
A. 6 July 2010: Don't settle for someone just because.
Maybe in his mind all is well. You do have to talk to him. Tell him how you feel. Don't nag and don't put the blame on him. Men shut down if you do. I know, I'm married for over 18 years. But you do need to t... (read in full...)
I'm already in too deep... now what?!
Q. I've answered so many questions on this site but I'm afraid I need some help myself, so here goes: I met this guy 3 years ago. He is 9 years older then me. We started to become friends and then when I found out he liked me more then a friend we...
A. 6 July 2010: You can fall head over heels in love. There can be sparks that would set a building on fire. Then reality sets in. I’m married for over 18 years and the big spark left many, many moons ago. But I would not leave my husband, because I love him ... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship... Calling
Q. Oky how do I start... I'm In a long distance relAtionship and I've known him for so long we have gone out when we lived near each other n braken up for lil stuff but know dat he has left we r trying to c how far we can get togetther. He had told me ...
A. 6 July 2010: Long distance relationships are hard to maintain. Maybe you should e-mail or text him your concerns. Don’t worry if he does not respond right of way. Give him a few days. Stop sitting by the phone. Do something with your girlfriends. Try to have fun ... (read in full...)
Just going through the motions
Q. Hi there! I've never used anything like this for advice, but things have gotten to the point where I'll take it where I can get it. I've been dating the same girl for about 2.5 years now, and we live together. For the past several months I ha...
A. 6 July 2010: Quite frankly, the “Honeymoon” is over.
Things can get tough and yes boring in a long term relationship. It does not matter if you married her or just live with her. It’s just easier to leave without the license. What matters is what you do desp... (read in full...)
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