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Do I accept his brutal honesty? Or get out?

Q.   So a couple of days ago was my 2nd anniversary with my boyfriend. It's been an odd two years - mostly happy moments but with a couple of major unhappy ones. I'll give the full history and this might be long: We had a happy relationship for...

A.   27 August 2009: hmmm i personally don't like his indecisveness about you... BUT i don't think you should end it on the basis of what he said about your shaved head. if you were to end it, it should be because he is indecisive about you and your relationship, not ... (read in full...)

My fiance wont have sex with my anymore, what can I do?

Q.   my man and I have been together for almost 3 years now. we have a 7 month old daughter as well. he never wants sex anymore! in the last month we've had it like 2 times. I try to initiate by changing up my look or playing but the second vaginal ...

A.   27 August 2009: eek doesn't sound good. if he is freezing up/shutting you out counseling may be your best bet at this point. Would he be willing to do something like that? I think there's definitely hope for your relationship, but he needs to put in a little more ... (read in full...)

When I go away for a year, I'm afraid his feelings for me will fade! What can I do?

Q.   Hi I am a female and I am 23 yrs old and I am bout to go off to school for a year. Well, I am currently dating this guy who i really truly love but i'm scared that while i'm gone he is going to stop lovin me and not want to be with me anymore. I ...

A.   27 August 2009: Doing a long distance relationship is tough, however, one of my closest friends has been in her long distance relationship for over 3 years now. They have their bumps in the road, but they are still together. And it can definitely be done, ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my girlfriend how I feel and get the spark back?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been dating for around 6 months now and I love her to death, but we are exact opposites. I'm almost 6' tall and shes about 5' 2" maybe, I'm around 250 LBS and shes less than 100 LBS. I'm 16, shes 14. I listen to country, ...

A.   27 August 2009: Yea I would maybe ask how she's doing and if she's not opening up to you I would ask her if she wants some space and if she says yes then I would give it to her (go on a break, break up, whatever). And if you do this "break" right (don't call, don't ... (read in full...)

Do all these things mean he could like me?

Q.   Okay. I need help. There's this guy I like named lewis. I need help knowing if he likes me. He is in one of my classes but I see him around a lot and always talk to him. When I'm at my locker and he walks by me he always pokes me and asks "Are you ...

A.   27 August 2009: ummm yes. granted, there is a chance he could just like you as a friend, but if your intuition is telling you that he is into you, he probably is. don't over-think it, just go with it.... (read in full...)

I don't like the fact that he has slept with about 40 women. But I'm falling for him. What should I do?

Q.   So i have been talking to this guy for three weeks. He tells me he really likes me and wants us to be together but we are taking things slow. We get along great and he has shared things about his childhood and life with me that he has never shared ...

A.   27 August 2009: I completely disagree with the last response, as far as it being a red flag. Whether or not it's a red flag depends on a variety of different factors, WHY he slept with such a large quantity of women, did he realize that sleeping with a great ... (read in full...)

He's proposed before, why not to me?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs already we have a child together and everything. i have proposed to him before but he doesn't want to get married because he feels that were moving too fast. he has proposed to two other women who have ...

A.   27 August 2009: I would say definitely NOT because you have a kid together, doesn't that increase the likelihood that he will propose? As far as him feeling like he is moving too fast, you guys already have a kid together...sounds like a smokescreen to me. What ... (read in full...)

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