He prefers oral to making love to me... Why?
Q. The problem: my boyfriend prefers being given oral sex to having sexual intercourse. I figured this out a while ago but recently he has actually told me this and he seemed to think it was strange of him. I don't know why but I feel hurt that he ...
A. 2 March 2006: Wow, I'm quite shocked that the men have actually said it!! Look, there has to be a balance. If you really respect your boyfriend, he respects you and you want to pleasure him, by all means give him oral sex. But it isn't fair if you don't like ... (read in full...)
"Spark" overrated?
Q. Is Spark everything? Is it better to be with someone who you really have that amazing spark with or someone who you really care about and respect and love but that spark is not there. I know the spark goes but if it is not there in the first pla...
A. 2 March 2006: IT depends what 'Spark' you are thinking of. IS it that spark when you see a really hot guy and you're just kinda dumbfounded? That's infatuation and that does not always grow into love. Or is that slow building up sense of trust, humour and love, ... (read in full...)
My mum doesn't think about how I feel...
Q. My mum has, for the past few months been having her boyfriend come and stay over at our house, sometimes for a week at a time. We live in a small house, and sometimes at night I can hear them having sex in their room, and it makes me feel really ...
A. 23 February 2006: The anonymous reader below has no idea what they are talking about. Irish has got it just right!! Some people don't understand the psychology around sex, your attitude towards sex and your future relationships is shaped by your experience with it. ... (read in full...)
My mum doesn't think about how I feel...
Q. My mum has, for the past few months been having her boyfriend come and stay over at our house, sometimes for a week at a time. We live in a small house, and sometimes at night I can hear them having sex in their room, and it makes me feel really ...
A. 22 February 2006: You have absolutely every right to be irritated by this. She obviously doesn't understand how sensitive you are and you have every right to be. Sex is for two people. No one else should be listening or watching. I think you need to tell your mother ... (read in full...)
Could my friend be pregnant if she had sex on her period?
Q. My friend thinks she might be pregnant. She and her boyfriend had sex when she was on her period and he didn't use anything. Was it better or worse that they did it while she was still on her period? Is there a high risk that she could be pregnant? ...
A. 20 February 2006: Any woman can get pregnant at any time. It is not wise to practise unprotected sex at any time and whoever you are. She should go to the doctor immediately. I know plenty of girls who have got pregnant when they had sex during their period. Timing, ... (read in full...)
He wants to have a threesome...
Q. My boyfriend of over a year has always teased about having a threesome with another women and keeps telling me that I would enjoy it. I have passed it off as a joke until recently when I asked him the same question that I have asked tons of times...
A. 18 February 2006: I think your instincts are correct. This is not a good thing for a mature and adult relationship. I don't judge promiscuity and having fun and safe sex, but a threesome is dangerous to your relationship. Sex is obviously about thrill seeking for him ... (read in full...)
She smokes pot now but I want to be her friend again
Q. Hi im in year 11. I dont have any friends and am lonely at break times, lunch times, even after school. The reason this all happened was because my best friend who i really liked and shared interests with left me and moved to a big group of peo...
A. 18 February 2006: Well, Sarah, I have been there. Not exactly the same. It's hard to move on from friends, but people grow up and grow apart. I'm not friends with anyone in my school from years 7 to 11 anymore. You need to make new friends and they are there at your ... (read in full...)
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