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writes: Hi im in year 11. I dont have any friends and am lonely at break times, lunch times, even after school. The reason this all happened was because my best friend who i really liked and shared interests with left me and moved to a big group of people. She now smokes pot and other stuff at lunch times and i just want her back as my friend. At first i think i want to join them just so i can be her friend again, but i dont like what they do..Please, help me and give me advice...Thank you- Sarah
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (18 February 2006):
 Sarah, stay true to yourself and keep away from her, she has decided she wants what these other girls have to offer and soon enough she will realise what she has lost with dumping you.
Year 11 is a lonely year as you are half way between a grown up and a kid, you are stressed with the mocks over and the big GCSE`s looming in May.
It is the last year of school before you go into the big wide world and believe it or not it will get better, soon you will be studdying and will have no time to pine for the friendship, you have your whole life to plan for and this is an exciting but deemanding time that will fly by.
You are a strong and intelligent girl that will go far and do well in life because you are aware of who you are and are not influenced easily, you should keep hold of your moral values and they will hold you in good stead for the rest of your life, she was just a very small part of your life and a chapter that has ended.
Move on and make new friends.
Be happy
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2006): im sorry but the truth is that if shes horrible enough to leave you then shes not a good friend and you shouldnt get envolved eith her again if shes smoking pot.change schools make a fresh start it worked for me- after a bad friendship i moved all the way to spain and have many english school friends. gina 14.
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reader, Ahava +, writes (18 February 2006):
Well, Sarah, I have been there. Not exactly the same. It's hard to move on from friends, but people grow up and grow apart. I'm not friends with anyone in my school from years 7 to 11 anymore. You need to make new friends and they are there at your school right now!! Even if you don't think so. It's worth getting involved in activities and extracuricular stuff. You'll meet ppl, you maynot neccessarily click with them, but it will grow. The lonliest part is being alone at break and lunchtime and this is going to go on for quite a while. I would definitely speak to the school counselor or a trusted teacher about this. Most importantly, don't let this ruin your future. Look forward to the time when you can change schools or start uni where everyone is eager and willing to meet you!!!
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reader, minaah +, writes (18 February 2006):
hey look you really should put yourself out there try and get her on her own and ask her hang out with them this is a matter of want you want to do its ur body just be careful because stuff like this results to bigger crime like theft and such be careful and think long and carefully best of luck minaahx
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