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He doesn't know how much our sex life is bothering me

Q.   I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21. We've been together for just over a year. We only have sex about once a week, sometimes not even that, or twice a week at a push. I want to have sex a little more often (twice a week every week would be great), but my ...

A.   31 July 2010: You know what they say... if the sex is bad it's 80% of the relationship. If it's good it's 20% of the relationship and you'll find other little things to complain about. I don't have much respect for guys that don't like to go down on me. I a... (read in full...)

Just how much does sex hurt...?

Q.   I have question?and its about me and my boyfriend. well the deal is that we been together for about 4-in half going on 5 and were both in are 20s and we been wait for so long that we want to have sex already but im afriad of pain and getting hurt. ...

A.   31 July 2010: Depends... will probably hurt a little depending on your experience with other aspects of sex. When I lost my virginity I was 17 and had never worn a tampon or touched myself or used a dildo (I know, strange), and it hurt a little but wasn't h... (read in full...)

Anxious about meeting my boyfriend again after a 3 month seperation (distance)

Q.   I will be heading back to meet my boyfriend after 3 months of long-distance separation. I am feeling with anxiety as to what should i do? How can I face him? I suddenly feel so far away from him... How can i control my fear? I heard that when ...

A.   31 July 2010: Tell him how you feel and how you are vulnerable, but in a very professional way. Tell him also an action-item of what he can do to alleviate those fears, or ask him to suggest something he can do to show affection for you (ie. call you even just to ... (read in full...)

I want to love her but I don't!

Q.   Okay so i really liked this girl and everything and we started going out and now she's in love with me but i can't seem to fall in love back even though i really, really want too. I don't want to break up and hurt her. I want to keep her and love ...

A.   11 March 2010: Love is not something you can control. You would do her justice and respect by telling her how you feel - you think she is a great girl but you are not in love with her. I think she would appreciate that in the long run because no one wants to be ... (read in full...)

Is my cousin's fiancee flirting with me or am I overreacting?

Q.   Right well basically i am 17 and my cousin's fiancee (soon to be huspand)is 22 i think is flirting with me. i have known him since i was 6 and we always got on really well but latley since i turned like 16 he has become a bit too over friendly. for ...

A.   11 March 2010: I agree with the previous post. If I was your cousin I would want to know asap so I could break off the engagement. Maybe he genuinely likes you (since you have the same taste in music, etc.) but he is very immature about how to go about it, ... (read in full...)

How do I get out of this? He is a serial cheater.

Q.   I have been in this relationship for far too long. However, it has turned into a game with me feeling jealous for valid reasons but never being able to prove it, so I am always told I am controlling, jealous etc. To make a long story short, I d...

A.   11 March 2010: I know what you mean by you can catch him in the act and he can still make you question your sanity. A relationship has two components: caring and trust. In order for it to work your level of trust has to match your level of caring, otherwise every ... (read in full...)

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