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writes:I have question?and its about me and my boyfriend. well the deal is that we been together for about 4-in half going on 5 and were both in are 20s and we been wait for so long that we want to have sex already but im afriad of pain and getting hurt. are there any suggestions on taking the pain away ang is it going to hurt a lot or a liittle or something like a pinch, tear. i really want to know plz help me any one!!!!!!thanx alot Reply to this Question
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reader, agonyaunt778 +, writes (31 July 2010):
Depends... will probably hurt a little depending on your experience with other aspects of sex.
When I lost my virginity I was 17 and had never worn a tampon or touched myself or used a dildo (I know, strange), and it hurt a little but wasn't horrible. It helps that I was very attracted to him, and he made me feel comfortable. I think it's different for every woman.
As long as you communicate how you feel and go slowly it should be a beautiful experience. Have fun!
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reader, Over..worried.  +, writes (31 July 2010):
 I remember this girl I know telling me it hurt so much she couldn't walk for days. But then when it actually happened to me, it didn't, like a little sore afterwards but other then that, it wasn't HORRIBLE pain. But maybe that is because MONTHS, before he had fingered me from time to time. So when it did actually happen as I said it didn't hurt. And make sure you relax.
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