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For the men: If you really loved someone, would you let their baggage stand in the way of being together?

Q.   Question mainly geared at men If you had been seeing someone but your life was in shambles ( ie. Custody battle, economic issues, relocation possibilities) Would you risk losing the relationship because you were afraid of Bringing that other in? ...

A.   11 May 2012: The idea of "if you really love someone" is all well and good but the day to day practicalities tend to cloud what could be a really good arrangement for all concerned,Where there are children for example. It takes a very strong bond to over... (read in full...)

Help me reach a decision regarding my mortage/stress situation

Q.   Okay, this is not strictly a relationship question but it relates to the situation that I have been left in after a break up. If your health had been not good for some time (due to the stress of the relationship and also because of having to do ...

A.   2 December 2011: Its option A all the way Once the stress of your current day to day life is reduced to a manageable level then you can proceed with your life in an orderly and solid fashion No one ever thinks or acts sensibly when they're stressed... (read in full...)

My new wife wants nothing to do with my kids. How can I help everyone reach a compromise?

Q.   I have been married for a couple of years to a very attractive and intelligent woman who holds down a good job and earns a lot of money. She is a wonderful woman but although she knew I had children before we married she now won't have anything to ...

A.   21 April 2011: Well firstly why are you looking for a compromise? These children were apparent when this woman courted and accepted marriage so what has changed? You are doing the absolute right thing by seeing as much of your children as you possibly can, th... (read in full...)

Is it wrong that my husband discusses our personal life with the mother of one of his children?

Q.   Please could you tell me how you would feel about this. I am recently married and have found out that my new husband discusses our personal life and things about me personally with one of the mothers of his children, asking for advice and her view ...

A.   15 February 2010: Maybe your new husband is asking advice from someone who he trusts to give advice, for a womans perspective you need to ask a woman so if its not a mother or sister then it needs to be someone else who he feels comfortable with to discuss details of ... (read in full...)

My views on animal rights are conflicting with my relationship, what should I do?

Q.   I need help! Ive been with my boyfriend for about two years now and we are both so happy together. Im buddhist so i have strong views about a lot of things. One of them is animal rights. I know this is a really extreme veiw but i think animals are ...

A.   11 November 2009: As i understand our beliefs, tolerance should always be practised. Your BF is doing something that he feels he needs to do or that needs to be done. That does not mean that you have to agree with his actions you cannot force your beliefs upon ano... (read in full...)

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